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THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN

Started this discussion. Last reply by Slick Jan 1, 2015. 14 Replies

IM STARTING THIS NEW DISCUSSION. I HAVE BEEN DIAGNOSED WITHPTSD ( POST TRAMATIC STRESS DISORDER ). I ALREADY HAVE OTHERMEDICAL ISSUES  TO DEAL WITH AND NOW ALL THE PAINFULEMOTIONS THAT ARE CONNECTED…Continue

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Slick replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"Yes David that is pretty much what it means...could be almost anything that will take me back to a trauma in my life...sometimes I don't even realize anything is going on......Bill always saw it immediately so it's very hard living alone…"
Jan 1, 2015
david1980 replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"Slick. you talk about triggers, does that mean something has triggered you from repression in your subconscious? I guess I am a little confused on triggering in your past unknowns and/or the loss of the multiple deaths. Whatever, you have a good…"
Dec 31, 2014
Slick replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"Happy New Year David..I don't drink either...my youngest son-in-law is a cop and holds the record for the most DUi's plus has special negotiation training so he works every NYE.....there are so many suicides and attempts ..a lot of…"
Dec 31, 2014
david1980 replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"Slick have a Happy New Year as possible. I do not drink so I will be home, but I am starting to plan on how to clean up a house someone deserted. That an injury delayed a trip to California for a couple of months. However, be proud of what you have…"
Dec 31, 2014
Slick replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"I try so hard to kick negativity right out the door..doesn't always work..right now I;m in a triggered state of mind..and can't seem to get out of it...I'm called a multiple loss survivor and a trauma survivor by professionals in the…"
Dec 31, 2014
Slick replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"I also have PTSD for many reason starting from childhood to an abusive marriage to a Nam Vet who has a much worse case then I do..divorced him after almost 25 years.. to losing my middle daughter at age 21....my Bill was always there and…"
Dec 30, 2014
loycer replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"AMEN to negativity.  We are survivors and we are to be celebrated and appreciated and those who have negative agendas/'tudes would do well to move on.  I welcome those who are able to support and appreciate me as I struggle daily to…"
Aug 24, 2014
TracyB replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"Lareina,  I have been diagnosed with PTSD as well. My husband was killed in a collision caused by a drunk driver. He died right beside me in the car. I see a psychologist regularly, take medication and require sleeping pills every night.…"
Jul 10, 2014
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sweetpea(Paula) replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"I too have PTSD, mine is from childhood trauma.  My husband passed on the 28th of June of this year.  I miss him so much.  I constantly check this site to see how others are doing and it saddens me to see so much loss and heartache.…"
Jul 10, 2014
Princess Warrior Widow replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"There is an old thread on ptsd on the site.  I like coming here so I can hear what others have experienced or tried.  I don't know if it would helpful.  Good luck with the EMDR."
Jun 4, 2014
Mariposa replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"BlueHaze- I have PTSD and I have been going to acupuncture, but I am being referred to EMDR therapy due to an anxiety attack.  I hope EMDR works for me. ~Mariposa"
Jun 4, 2014
BlueHaze replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"Hi Lareina, In time w/a good therapist who specializes in Trauma, I am able to function w/PTSD to the best of my abilities. My active grief ended 2yrs ago, however, my PTSD existed prior to my late husband's death & it will…"
Jan 2, 2014
Slick replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"Good Morning .....Lareina.....I was dx with PTSD about 14 years ago......mother who thought she only had one daughter and it wasn't me, abusive ,alcoholic..Viet Nam Vet was my first husband..he really did a number on me....and then when my 21…"
Dec 31, 2013
david1980 replied to lareina57's discussion THE COMBINATION OF EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL PAIN
"Hi Lareina, I try to make it an every day journey to rebuild the pathway of my life.  Your life does not seem to be an easy one, and believe me, I sure can relate to some of your world.  One time someone asked me: "do you love the…"
Aug 21, 2013
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there are situations where being sensitive and
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can blow up in your face so badly , you wish that
you just stayed out of it and let the person just
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THE STING OF MY SPOUSE'S PASSING

Posted on August 13, 2013 at 5:06pm 1 Comment

MY HUSBAND , PASSED TWO YEARS AGO TODAY , AND IT FEELS LIKE IT JUST

HAPPENED . I'VE BEEN TOLD NUMEROUS TIMES THAT HE IS IN A BETTER PLACE,

BUT THAT DOES'NT MAKE ME FEEL ANY BETTER . HE WASN'T PERFECT, AND AT

TIMES A REAL CHALLENGE BECAUSE HE MARCHED TO THE BEAT OF HIS OWN

MUSIC . I CALLED HIM A PAIN IN THE A** , AND HE WOULD TELL ME HE WAS MY

PAIN IN THE A**. THE STING IS JUST AS PAINFUL TODAY , AND I LOST COUNT OF

HOW MANY TIMES I HAD A TEARFUL…

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TRIBUTE TO MY LOVED ONE

Posted on June 6, 2013 at 4:18pm 1 Comment

THE TRIBUTE TO YOUR LOVED ONE HAPPENS THROUGH

THE MEMORIES THAT YOU SHARED. THE HUMAN SOUL LIVES

FOREVER , MEMORIES LIVE FOREVER , LOVE LIVES FOREVER . NEGATIVE

PEOPLE ,AND THOUGHTLESS ,…

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SHARING BEAUTIFUL WORDS OF COMFORT

Posted on March 14, 2013 at 1:40pm 1 Comment

 

      GREETINGS WIDOWED VILLAGE MEMBERS, LaReina57 HERE . I WOULD LIKE TO

      SHARE A EXCERPT FROM A BOOK TITLED " NEVER LETTING GO " BY AN

      AUTHOR NAMED MARK ANTHONY WHO HAPPENS TO BE AN ATTORNEY AND

      AN INTUITIVE . I GOT THE BOOK FROM THE LIBRARY BECAUSE I NEEDED SOME-

      THING TO HELP GET ME THROUGH MY JOURNEY OF GRIEF . I LOVE AND IDENTIFY

      WITH EVERYTHING IN THIS BOOK SO MUCH, I PURCHASED A COPY FOR MYSELF.…

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THE SUBJECT: THE INVENTION OF THE STFU CARDS!!!!!!!!!

Posted on March 12, 2013 at 12:56pm 6 Comments

    HI WIDOWED VILLAGE MEMBERS, LaReina57 here , I've read numerous

    posts that mention the passing out of the '' STFU" cards and I think

    that's a great idea! So I have thought about it so much that I have

    designed one, and this is what I came up with and I would love to

    here your opinions!

 

 

              I'M  IN  ENOUGH PAIN TO LAST A LIFETIME,

              I DON'T NEED ANY HELP FROM THE…

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