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lisa72
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The Nice Things People Say

Started this discussion. Last reply by lisa72 Apr 21. 13 Replies

 Hi, My name is Lisa and I lost the love of my life 3 weeks ago.  I've heard some really inappropriate comments and have been able to shake them off for the most part. Somehow it is the nice things…Continue

 

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lisa72 replied to Imogen's discussion Stupid People
"I know, they are all insane! I had the same thing. People told me I was lucky he died and we didn't divorce. My husband and I had both been divorced before. I told them that they were full of shit! When you get divorced you have chosen it. When…"
Apr 21
lisa72 replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"I am so very sorry for your loss! I know that means absolutely nothing! I lost my husband Feb. 15, 2015. I am absolutely NOT over it. I still cry everyday! I have gone on with my life...only because I had too! I have parents, children and…"
Apr 21
Dianthus0625 replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"Hi Lisa my condolences on your loss. I understand exactly how you feel."
Apr 18
SweetMelissa2007 replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"Bob & I were together 28 years ... It was not long enough ... Nor does it seem like it was that long in terms of years ... Sometimes, I have to look at our wedding pictures to remind me of our youth as well as other pictures of all the years in…"
Apr 17
Alone replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"Hello Lisa, You make sense to me ((((hugs)))) I had a text from a friend today telling me how much my Steve loved me it was like a knife through my heart. We were together 32 years which I am grateful for but I knew how he loved me we were always…"
Apr 17
Lupe's husband replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"Sadly Lisa it's normal for people to fall away.    We had a mass recently for my MIL who died three years ago and three people showed up.   May 6 will be four years for me, and the past few years we went out to eat on the 6th.…"
Apr 14
lisa72 replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"When I first got on here, it had only been 3 weeks when I lost the love of my life. Those nights were absolutely horrible. I cried constantly and screamed at an empty house. I drank a lot, just to sleep, went a bit crazy for awhile!   I was…"
Apr 13
E. Brandt replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"Lisa, Unfortunately people are not able to process the death of a loved one. When they don't know what to say occasionally crazy , stupid and funny come out at once in a jumbled mess. It's hard to hold back tears while simultaneously…"
Jul 2, 2015
Dee replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"Lisa, you made perfect sense to me.  I lost the love of my life a year ago, and if one more person tries to comfort me with "You had a wonderful love story" or "You had so many wonderful years" or some such, I'll smack…"
Jul 1, 2015
mixelated commented on lisa72's blog post Meet Me In My Dream
"right there with you Lisa, I'm sorry. :( "
Mar 16, 2015
Belinda commented on lisa72's blog post Meet Me In My Dream
"Lisa72 I know how you feel my dear husband has been gone 6 months and I don't dream about him either. I take meds at night so I don't know if this has anything to do with it. I beg all the time for him to meet me in a dream. I had one…"
Mar 10, 2015
Mabelsmom replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"I could have written these exact words, so I understand completely. II had my dearest for a year longer but everything else is the same. We had moved back to his hometown 9 years before he died and had a small business for a few years so there were…"
Mar 8, 2015
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Mar 8, 2015
vintage56(barb) replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"People try to say something to make you feel better - nothing can make you feel better. But they can't seem to help it, it is just human nature. I wish they would just say "I'm sorry" and be done with it. If you can, try to…"
Mar 8, 2015
eddiesgirl replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"I understand . . . the nice things people say flood back the strong memories. I feel like I'm Always on the verge of emotion overload. I can pass off the ignorant remarks but the heartfelt comments put me over the edge. Then the other person…"
Mar 7, 2015
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Meet Me In My Dream

Posted on March 1, 2015 at 10:30pm 2 Comments

I had my wonderful husband for 15 years before I lost him 2 weeks ago, in the blink of an eye. Every night we had a couple of things that we would say to each other. I'd say Sweet Dreams and he'd say, "Of Rythm and Dancing". Totally corny, but also totally us!  We also said, "Meet Me in My Dreams".  When I was looking for a poem to put on his memorial card I looked up Meet Me in My Dream and found this poem.  It was perfect. Here it is...

Meet me in my dream,

I’ll be…

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At 2:12am on March 6, 2015, Doug02122014 said…
lisa72,

Hey there, I just woke up & saw you in chat but you had left a few hrs ago. If you need a good listener feel free to message me anytime. I'm always willing to help as there were a lot of people on here helping me when I was new here.

Take care.

Doug
At 10:51pm on March 3, 2015, TG (Trudi) said…

Oh honey, I am so sorry you needed to be here but glad you found us, this site is full of folk who understand the path we are on.

2 weeks is so raw, your heart will need time to catch up, be gentle to yourself

At 7:31am on February 25, 2015, Angel said…

lisa72 welcome may not be the right word to extend to you but I do pray you will find comfort in our midst... Angel

At 7:21am on February 25, 2015, wannabmartha said…

So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others.  Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help. Below is a link that you might find helpful as a new member.

http://widowedvillage.org/forum/topics/need-help-using-the-site-ask-here

 
 
 

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