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I lost my husband almost 3 mos ago but my emotions about it are hard to understand.

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Posted on June 13, 2016 at 3:49am 1 Comment

my last visit to the beach was with my late husband, Frankie. He was very sick w/cancer and didn't live too much longer after the trip.  He was very weak and unfortunatly the weather had turned cold.He couldn't go outside w/me not even on the balcony. i did get him in on e of

the resorts hot tubes once but he was so frail and his foot was all swollen…



Posted on March 23, 2016 at 8:55pm 0 Comments

Well its getting close to Easter and i'm remembering the last one i spent w/my husband, Frankie. We went to the catholic Mass as that was the religion we were both baptized in and the one he grew up in and felt most at home with. The priest was one that had visited him in the hospital when he had pneumonia and had given him communion and last rites. He also saw my husband another time. He ended up being the priest to do the memorial service…


i miss him

Posted on January 8, 2016 at 2:15am 2 Comments

well its been around 20 mos. A lot of days i go w/out thinking about my husband or the sadness or i'll just think about him and i won't be hurt by it, but tonight i'm feeling really sad and really scared. I saw a friend of mine who had quit being friends shortly after my husband passed and just recently re-entered my life. He found out he had cancer the week he quit talking to me. Tonight he helped me out of a jam by picking me up from the bar and we went to eat. Frankie,my husband, meant a…


my husband frankie

Posted on June 21, 2015 at 8:18am 0 Comments

My husband frankie was a very kind and loving person, very spiritual in his own way. Today i miss him. It"s father's day and i don't think the outside world really gets what's it's like when the father is so young and gone.I always think of father as being the older man, like my father, whose been gone a long time now.But what about the father's that aren't here anymore-the husband's that are gone. Not much is said about them. I miss my husband today, even though we never made a big tadoo…


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At 3:05pm on May 4, 2015, pipin said…
So sorry was away i holidays and very low since I came back . Chat soon
At 9:38am on August 23, 2014, loycer said…

And I, too, lost my husband of 50 years ago and am about 13 weeks and the emotions are probably going to be with us for quite a while and I think we have NO control because it is all part of the "healing" process as parts of ourselves have splintered off and we are in recovery of self especially if we were caregivers with all that special situation entailed.  Wounds take time to heal and they ache/hurt.

At 9:36pm on July 25, 2014, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, littlelamb. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.


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