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They Can't Take That Away From Me - Or You...a song about those "little things"

Posted on July 10, 2013 at 4:43pm 2 Comments

Today I kept hearing the song, "They Can't Take That Away From Me" in my head. It really illustrates how those "little things" are actually incredibly significant memories that are have and to hold and to cherish, forever. They may make me weep, but I wouldn't trade these memories, these once "little things, for anything in the world.

"They Can't Take That Away From Me"

There are many, many crazy things

That will keep me loving you,

And with your… Continue

What Brings Tears?

Posted on July 8, 2013 at 12:35pm 4 Comments

My tears are not just limited to the "expected" triggers. Or maybe, everything is an expected trigger because he was in every piece, every inch, every everything of my life. And he still is. And he always will be. Yesterday was such a rough day in that everything reminded me of my sweet, gentle's been over a year and I still cry almost every day, usually every day...somehow I knew that even the most innocuous things would bring me to tears but then they're not really innocuous because… Continue

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At 8:57pm on July 8, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…
Hi Carrie:)
you posted some videos w the name Carol.......but it sounds like we may be 'sisters' if you are a Christian:). I hope so.....Cathy
At 7:28pm on July 8, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…

we were married 28 yrs woulda been 29 Sept 2!    just remember God is GOOD!   You'll see Russ again !!  Glad I can be a hope & inspiration!!  don't know need to apologize for hurting & pain...I have it too

       looking forward to chatting with ya   cathy

At 7:22pm on July 8, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…

I'M 50 YR young!NAME IS cATHY  john paul's wife=JPSwife  My Faith in God makes life worth living, helped me get thru John's illness & brings me joy in knowing John can walk & talk again, is in Heaven worshipping Jesus & I'll see him again!  but i don't know why John got the disease or suffered!!  but I know God LOVES both of us very much--just wish I knew HIS plan!!

At 7:16pm on July 8, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…

living does hurt!!   I hate the saying TIME HEALS ALL WOUND----i'VE LEARNED to cope --I cry less now---i see some happiness but my daughter, Ariel, 22, 2ho lives with me brings a lot of joy!!  yes i get lonely....its been 15 monthes now....John, age 48, died April 25, 2012 from ALS/LOU Gehrig's Disease 17 monthes after he was FINALLY diagnosed...cont.....

At 7:08pm on July 8, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…

hi many colors CAROL?

At 4:12pm on July 7, 2013, LifesAJourney said…

Welcome to Widville, many colors  I am so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.



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