"I am so very sorry that you had to go through all of that, well "this". You just have to take it one day at a time. Sometimes even that is overwhelming and you have to take it one minute at a time. "Forward" is one step at a time…"
You said plenty, at least I know that I'm not nuts. For years Tom would salt something before he tasted it. I used to tell him to taste it first, he salted cottage cheese and it's already salty.
I'm going to make a conscious…"
"When Tom and I first got married he was a very picky eater, he didn't even know what salt & pepper were. Down through the years, he loosened up and learned to like a lot more things but he wasn't fond of anything that was healthy and I…"
That is horrible. I am so very sorry that you are having to go through this along with everything else you are having to deal with. Don't give up, that's what they want you to do then they get to keep the money. We didn't…"
"Oh my gosh Boo, YES! Tom loved music, rock & roll, wasn't a fan of country western. He was constantly messing with the radio in the car. We ran the gamut of records, 8-tracks, cassettes, and CDs. I have found that, like you, listening to…"
"I know exactly how you feel.
I lived at home until the day I married Tom at age 20. For 42 years of my life it was "we" everything. I too, wore what he liked me in, I watched what he watched on TV, listened to what he listened to on…"
"Tom was the baby in his family and his mother doted on him. When he got sick he acted like I should be his mother and he shouldn't have to do anything on his own, I should baby him like his Mom did. I didn't mind helping him, but when he…"
"I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. My hubs didn't have TIA's, he was diabetic and non-compliant. He would go to the hospital and be so sorry he was putting us though all of it, he was so sorry and when he got out, he…"
"Ashley I am so very sorry for your loss. We are never prepared but your husband was so very young.
I too, lost my husband on January 2, 2017. We have been married 42 years but actually been together 45, we started dating as juniors in high school.…"
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