"It went on a date on Saturday...nice guy. Went to a hot dog place that is iconic in my area...I felt myself having a panic attack. After several hours I had to come home. I started feeling guilty . I felt like I was…"
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It has only been a month
Started this discussion. Last reply by Lisa (lost) Lamb Feb 20, 2012. 9 Replies 0 Likes
My husband died of Lung Cancer on December 10, 2011. The pain, at times is unbearable. I miss him so much. I miss him walking through the door at night. I miss him making coffee for me in the…Continue
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dobster replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion For those who have dated... how did you know when you were ready?
dobster commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Tears while doing taxes...I still have to do mine because I can't bear the thought of all the medical bills, all the treatments and still he didn't make it...almost 3 months since he has been gone...some days it is just to much! …"
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"dobster, I'm sorry for your loss and for the newness of the whole thing. It's certainly a painful journey and I hope you get support and understanding from this site and these wonderful people, all of who understand exactly what you are…"
dobster replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion For those who have dated... how did you know when you were ready?
"I lost my hubby almost 3 months ago. I sit here and think about how wonderful he was and don't think I can ever find someone like him again...What I have to realize is that I am a different person now. My new norm is without my…"
dobster replied to jimswife33 (Michelle)'s discussion Spiritual mediums, what do you think?
"Well I have gone to one. I am a friend of a medium who works with the police on missing persons cases. I found her to be on target with connecting with my husband...she knew things that only my husband would have know. I am a…"
dobster replied to CrazyWidow's discussion The Ways We Self Medicate
"I have always lead a sheltered life...church, family, work,....I rarely drank. The night my husband died his boss told me to go and get sh.t face drunk...didn't really know how to do that, so I drank 2 apple martini's and was…"
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- At 5:35pm on March 2, 2012,
boburly (shirley) said… dobster, I'm sorry for your loss and for the newness of the whole thing. It's certainly a painful journey and I hope you get support and understanding from this site and these wonderful people, all of who understand exactly what you are going through.
Sending healing thoughts to you, my friend.
- At 8:24am on March 2, 2012,
hendrixx2 said… hi dobster, so sorry for your loss, hope you find some healing hear, my died 4mos ago of colon ca. which was diagnosed in '07
- At 10:02pm on January 15, 2012,
carolynne said… Dobster, I'm so very sorry for your loss, but so glad you found us. I wish I had a quick solution to ease your pain, unfortunately there isn't one. Be gentle with yourself, do things in your own time, cry as much as you need to. Remember to breathe. Try to eat a little, even if you're not hungry. Try to get some sleep. And come here often. We're all here for you and with you.
- At 7:56am on January 12, 2012,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
- At 1:53am on January 12, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm so very sorry for your loss, mdobbins, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.
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