"Hello mmmwhite3 and thanks for your invite. My condolences on your loss. I lost my hubby to a heart attack on Jan. 4, 2013 at the tender age of 53 and no sickness leading up to it. He passed in his sleep...they said all the cpr available…"
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"I know, I know. Yours is still so very fresh. I wish I could hug you. I hate to say but it will get better eventually just not so soon. I can't wait to meet you. You really need a hug, I can feel it. Here is my hug. (((((big bear hug)))). Do me…"
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"I am not working so I'm in this house. My motivation went to zero and is slowly coming back. I find that sitting at home gets me depressed...especially during the day. The house itself is a constant reminder. As well as the car. I just traded…"
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"Hi MMMwhite, in response to your question, it's very hard for me to sleep. When it's time for bed, I hesitate every night. I hate bedtime actually. I don't look forward to it, but I think I may be getting a little better. And…"
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"Hi Mmm, well, I also formed a group for women to encourage one another to stay healthy. Our goal is to lose 20 pounds by December 20, and we had our first meeting Saturday. It was awesome! We brought food, encouraged one another and vowed to stay in…"
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"Hi mmwhite3. I am sorry for YOUR loss recently. My sincerest condolences. Yes, I'm in Charlotte. Thank you for reaching out. It's nice here"
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"mmmwhite3, I am so sorry for your loss and the reason that brings you to WV. I hope that you find support and comfort here as so many of us have. Everyone one here really understands and is willing to help out along this journey. HUGS."
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- At 5:35pm on May 1, 2013,
Rea said… Hello mmmwhite3 and thanks for your invite. My condolences on your loss. I lost my hubby to a heart attack on Jan. 4, 2013 at the tender age of 53 and no sickness leading up to it. He passed in his sleep...they said all the cpr available could not save him, but I prayed while giving him cpr, that our love for each other would give him life. Although I have stopped beating myself up and sometimes I have accepted it, but I still get angry at times. My tears are still like torrential rains when they come, but not as often now. I will just put it this way, if my doctor and grown kids could peek in my head, they would admit me right away. I get by by talking to my beloved hubby everyday. people say they see and hear us, so I talk to him and keep him abreast of whats going on down here. I found this website a few weeks ago and am glad I did...have conversed with some really nice people here. I'm glad to meet you....*handshake*
- At 5:02pm on April 5, 2013,
CC77 said… Hi. Just thinking of you. I Pray God bless and keep you.
- At 10:17pm on October 24, 2012,
Sabra said… Sending hugs your way...
- At 10:38pm on October 10, 2012, Sabra said…
I know, I know. Yours is still so very fresh. I wish I could hug you. I hate to say but it will get better eventually just not so soon. I can't wait to meet you. You really need a hug, I can feel it. Here is my hug. (((((big bear hug)))). Do me a favor, if you are up for it, write down what happened if you can get through it. Or maybe you can only write down one sentence now. For me, writing was my healing.
- At 10:22pm on October 10, 2012, Sabra said…
I am not working so I'm in this house. My motivation went to zero and is slowly coming back. I find that sitting at home gets me depressed...especially during the day. The house itself is a constant reminder. As well as the car. I just traded his car in...I couldn't take it. I don't want to take sleep aids either so I'll drink tea or something. It only helps a little and then I wake up. It's like I don't like to go to sleep and then I can't wait to wake up. It's like it's all a bad dream. You have small children so it must be really hard. Maybe there is something natural that can aid us in our sleep.
- At 9:51pm on October 10, 2012, Sabra said…
Hi MMMwhite, in response to your question, it's very hard for me to sleep. When it's time for bed, I hesitate every night. I hate bedtime actually. I don't look forward to it, but I think I may be getting a little better. And you?
- At 10:47pm on October 8, 2012, Sabra said…
- Hi Mmm, well, I also formed a group for women to encourage one another to stay healthy. Our goal is to lose 20 pounds by December 20, and we had our first meeting Saturday. It was awesome! We brought food, encouraged one another and vowed to stay in touch in between meetings. But I have a feeling this group of ladies will remain in touch afterwards. The ages vary from 41 to 64. It blessed me and I feel this is something that will also keep me sane and also allow me to fellowship with like minded women. writing in my journal also helps. Hoe are you holding up? Im sure it may still be fresh for you and hard. Time heals...slowly. I also listen to music. Have you heard of Andy Grammar? He has a song called Keep Your Head Up. Google him....stay encouraged. My heart goes out to you.
- At 10:25am on October 7, 2012, Sabra said…
Hi mmwhite3. I am sorry for YOUR loss recently. My sincerest condolences. Yes, I'm in Charlotte. Thank you for reaching out. It's nice here
- At 2:18pm on September 27, 2012,
kimkirt (KK) said… mmmwhite3, I am so sorry for your loss and the reason that brings you to WV. I hope that you find support and comfort here as so many of us have. Everyone one here really understands and is willing to help out along this journey. HUGS.
- At 9:22pm on September 24, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome mmmwhite3: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"
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