"Lost070 I still do that from time to time or the phone will ring while I am at work and think it is him and I stop to remember no he isn't here. March will be a year it doesn't happen as frequently as it did in the beginning.…"
"I felt that way in the beginning as well ...so guilty for being the one to watch the kids smile, to laugh at something they did, to watch his puppy grow etc it all made me guilty. But then I learned to embrace them and remember he sees it all…"
"I read here but don't post often. Hope everyone survived the holidays. For me they were easier than the last day of the year. It was funny I simply couldn't wait to see 2012 go away but yet it arrived that final moments…"
"well said. Carl kept telling me to go to my roots...maybe that is part of this journey to Texas...my roots and beyond. My great grandmother was Cherokee and my great grandfather was Cherokee and Irish on my moms side. Dad's…"
"sorry for the new faces but glad you made it here for support. Everyone here is wonderful. My husband passed March 23 after 1 1/2 yr battle with cancer and I am doing better today than I was weeks ago. I didn't think I would…"
"Amandajean how horrible!! I too can't fathom how someone can't stop after hitting another. many hugs and best wishes your way as you go down this road. There are many nice and helpful people here the one thing we all have…"
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I'm so sorry for what you're going through. This is a very painful time, but I think if you can ask for some time off at work - that would be great. If hospice or some other service is available for counseling, take them up on it. There are no words of wisdom - only don't try to go this alone. Let other people help you.
I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm glad you've found us. I lost my husband 10 months ago from a 4 month fight with lung cancer. I understand the loss and the strength it took for you to go through it with him. You will find comfort and peace here, and many new friends that are traveling the same journey that you are. Open up when your ready we are all here for you. Welcome.
Welcome moosemama: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at WV that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
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So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.