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Problems fitting in as an older mom.

Started this discussion. Last reply by lisarichmond Mar 28, 2012. 3 Replies

At 48 I am raising a 3 year old and am faced with many challenges being an older mom and widow.  I can not find anyone with a similar situation.   I am finding it hard to find a place to fit in and…Continue

Tags: getting older, fitting in, parenting

divorced now a widow

Started this discussion. Last reply by Alive & Mortal Apr 13, 2011. 1 Reply

I was divorced form a horrible situation in 1996 and raised two children by myself without any help.  Now at 48 I am a widow raising a 3 year old by myself and caring for two adult children and a…Continue

 

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lisarichmond replied to mrossman's discussion Problems fitting in as an older mom.
"I am a 42 year old widow with a 2, 3 and 5 year old.  I am not 48 but I am not far off and most of my chidlren's peers parents are at least 10 years younger than me.  Anything I can do to help, even just being an ear let me…"
Mar 28, 2012
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"I can relate.  I get so frustrated feeling like others do not understand.  I prefer to be alone with my memories.  It feels so much more real than many of the people around me."
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how come everything now is defined by my "widowhood"?  when things happened what i am doing  etc..i have started going out a bit and i keep thinking I want to ask george what he thinks. is it okay/ is this guy okay? he was my sounding board for everything.he made my life okay.  i am so tired of making all the decisions by myself.george is such a part of everything i do. everywhere i go brings back memories, remembering what we had , what we lost.i love him more than any living person which…See More
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"beautiful.  thanks for sharing and reminding all of us of the love we had shared in our own lives.  I think it is so beautiful that he dies knowing he was loved and his love made you strong."
Nov 28, 2011
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"What a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing."
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undecided

Posted on December 8, 2011 at 11:25pm 1 Comment

how come everything now is defined by my "widowhood"?  when things happened what i am doing  etc..

i have started going out a bit and i keep thinking I want to ask george what he thinks. is it okay/ is this guy okay? he was my sounding board for everything.he made my life okay.  i am so tired of making all the decisions by myself.

george is such a part of everything i do. everywhere i go brings back memories, remembering what we had , what we lost.

i love him more than…

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a true love story

Posted on November 23, 2011 at 9:16pm 4 Comments

I decided to start writing mostly to remember the  beautiful love affair  I shared with my husband and chronicle some memories for our son.  Thanksgiving is always hard for so many reasons.  We always had Thanksgiving at our house as it was the only "neutral" holiday.  Everybody we could we invited.  I always worked the night before and cooked when I got home.  There was always so much food.  Thanksgiving was the first holiday george and i spent together.  at that time he lived in the house…

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