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navigating life
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  • Gulfport, MS
  • United States
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navigating life commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"I had to and sorry for everyone's loss.  I think we are all champions we are the ones left behind.  I was forced to take his name off I guess it was good in a way but it did hurt.  I have had several weeks of bad days well just…"
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mamapitbull commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"I think you're doing great.  It's been 6 months for me and I haven't done any of that yet.  Just not ready to.  I don't think I'll do it till I have to."
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Mary commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"Another step forward. I'm commenting again because I have taken yet another necessary action. I finally closed out an account that we had for 20 years. I could still use it but it was "his". I could have easily opened another account…"
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Wagging.tails.help commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"I'm in the same boat.  My husband passed away in August, and had to start taking his name off things like yhe checking account and such.  I still have not removed him from things like lights, water, etc.  If it doesnt have to…"
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jpann39 commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"navigating life, I'm sorry for the loss of your husband, Yes, I feel the same :( Actually I have cried at every step of this nightmare. I lost my husband unexpectedly May 15th and I feel like my world has been spinning out of control since the…"
Sep 3
navigating life commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"Thank you Forever Changed sorry for your loss too.   The house is not the same I understand you too I wear my husbands shirts sometimes and my Mother in Law made a pillow for me will show pictures when I get it in Sept.   "
Aug 27
navigating life commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"I am glad to know I am not alone.  His name is still on our vehicles.   My father in law will be down soon and it will be strange to do everything without my husband.   I am thankful to have so much support from his…"
Aug 27
Estragon commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"My wife died in January.  I've changed the stuff I really had to, but still can't quite get around to changing the stuff that doesn't really need to be just me.  I'll get there, but unless there's a compelling,…"
Aug 27
Forever Changed commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"Hi I can relate.  First, I am sorry for your loss and want to mention he will never be erased as long as you keep his memory alive in your heart and thoughts.   I have been without the love of my life (Dom) for a little over 4 months…"
Aug 27
navigating life commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"I'm sorry Mary it must have been hard.  I don't know if I will ever take his down  Mine says married to Anthony Johnston and if I delete it I don't know it just seems bad.   I loved him so much and I miss us…"
Aug 27
Mary commented on navigating life's blog post Erasing My Husband
"I totally get it! Just this morning I finally requested my husbands facebook page be deleted. And said to myself, I'm erasing him. It feels like that but its not really. Deleting FB will help me, no more friend requests for me to…"
Aug 26
navigating life replied to Rich's discussion How are you handling the Coronavirus outbreak?
"I'm doing just fine.   Since my husband had cancer we didn't change anything washed our hands did the same things we did already because he had a weakened immune system.   I have been at peace with it not feeding into…"
Aug 25
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Erasing My Husband

Today makes 2 months and 5 days since my husband left this world behind.   I have a lot of trouble when it comes to putting things in my name.  I feel like I am erasing every bit of our lives together.   I had to change the lease the utilities even the maintenance on our car was under his name.   Our online bank accounts were in his name we used the same one for both of us that had to switch too.  Does anyone else struggle with this?   I just feel like he is being deleted from a life that we…See More
Aug 25
navigating life replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: SOUTH - EAST CENTRAL in the group Connect with others in your area
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Aug 21
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"It has been bitter sweet for me.  I hate losing him my partner my friend but my faith says it is okay he is safe now.  I look at the world today I and I think I would have been his sole protector if things turned ugly where I'm…"
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Erasing My Husband

Posted on August 25, 2020 at 1:54pm 11 Comments

Today makes 2 months and 5 days since my husband left this world behind.   I have a lot of trouble when it comes to putting things in my name.  I feel like I am erasing every bit of our lives together.   I had to change the lease the utilities even the maintenance on our car was under his name.   Our online bank accounts were in his name we used the same one for both of us that had to switch too.  Does anyone else struggle with this?   I just feel like he is…

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At 7:42am on August 16, 2020, judy said…

Hi Navigating Life,

Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.

 

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