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nayajivan
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  • mumbai Maharashtra
  • India
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Mamitha replied to nayajivan's discussion how to handle life now in the group Long-Term Illness
"Hi nayajivan, I'm fairly new to WV, but I already can see that all the comments and support is amazing. First: Breath, you have been through a lot for many years. Then take your time in discovering the things that make you comfortable in doing…"
May 11
nayajivan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2018
"Very True Weemunk We all are feeling similar pain and grief.. You have come to the right place, here everyone is facing the same pain and grief. hence  you will find the same kind of feelings and emotions from all the members who are sailing…"
Apr 25
nayajivan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2018
"When Our Soulmate leaves us even if it after fighting terminal disease either for days or weeks or months or years, for Us it is living in hell without that Soulmate. Only someone who has lost Soulmate will and can understand our pain, grief, hurt,…"
Apr 25
nayajivan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2018
"Hi Laurel, I lost my Wife of 19 years to Kidney Failure on 3-12-18. Even I am undergoing great pain and hurt at the loss, but now, you will have to accept the hard, harsh, cruel reality that the person whom we adored and loved for all these years is…"
Apr 22
nayajivan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you very much friends for the kind and absolute support and care showered on me in these difficult times.. Though, it is very easy to say to accept this cruel, harsh, evil, unfair and untimely loss, I feel like that I will not be able to live…"
Apr 18
nayajivan replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion APRIL Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"11th April - Today is Archana's 43rd Birthday ! Many Many Happy Returns of the Birthday ! She is not with Us today but I pray that wherever she is - she must be happy and at peace ! Though, one her last birthday, we never knew that it was her…"
Apr 11
nayajivan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2018
"The kids r just doing ok.. They r trying to adjust with the loss.. They r not yet opening up and sharing their thoughts.. I am myself not in position to help myself.. Feeling sad that my children have to face such loss.."
Apr 3
nayajivan replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"I am 44 years and my wife was 43 years... We have 2 lovely and wonderful sons - 17 years and 14 years.. We lost her on 12th March 2018... I feel terrible and heavy in the heart.. sometimes, I am unable to breath also when her thoughts comes to my…"
Apr 3
Manderly replied to nayajivan's discussion how to handle life now in the group Long-Term Illness
"I am so sorry for your loss.  There are so many things that can help, but no one can tell you which ones will work for you. Try as many as you have strength for.  I can tell you a little about what helped me when my husband died. He was…"
Apr 2
Pointbass replied to nayajivan's discussion how to handle life now in the group Long-Term Illness
"Hello nayalivan, I’m not 100% sure I can help or advise, but I can say that there are many people on this site who have been in your unfortunate position, myself included. I lost my wife nearly two years ago after 35 years of marriage; she,…"
Apr 2
Rainy (Misty) left a comment for nayajivan
"Naya, focus on what you need to do to get through a day.  Meals, cleaning etc. and what the boy's needs are.  That is living and getting through the day.  As time goes on it will get easier.  Take care of yourself."
Apr 2
Rainy (Misty) left a comment for nayajivan
"I'm so sorry for your loss Naya.  The struggle to comprehend what we've been through is real and it's devastating but it does get softer with time.   I'm almost 4 months out and I can tell you it's…"
Apr 2
nayajivan added a discussion to the group Long-Term Illness
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how to handle life now

Hi,I have lost my wife Archana on 12th March 2018.19 years of Marriage..2 beautiful and lovely sons - 17 and 14 years..15 years of battle against 2 deadly diseases - Kidney Failure and AIHA...9 Years of Dialysis..andMany other health complications for all these years...Now, she is gone and I am left alone in dark..I am not able to understand and think as to how to live without her..Please help, guide, advise and support me..See More
Apr 2
nayajivan replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"In India, there is no visible help and support system in place for the widow or widower similar to Widowed Village or Soaring Spirits so, it is pretty difficult for someone like me to pass through and face the difficult times in India. and that is…"
Apr 2
nayajivan replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I don't understand what to do and how to do ? It seems that my mind has stopped working.. I am unable to think and just mechanical and  artificial living. I am unable to understand how to face life without her.."
Apr 2
nayajivan replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"hi, I am from Mumbai - India. I have lost my wife Archana on 12th March 2018. She left us - me and my 2 sons suddenly. She was on Dialysis and suffering from 2 deadly diseases for last 15 years. I feel lost, blank, depressed and in dark. What do I…"
Apr 2

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At 9:02am on April 2, 2018, Rainy (Misty) said…

Naya, focus on what you need to do to get through a day.  Meals, cleaning etc. and what the boy's needs are.  That is living and getting through the day.  As time goes on it will get easier.  Take care of yourself.

At 7:19am on April 2, 2018, Rainy (Misty) said…

I'm so sorry for your loss Naya.  The struggle to comprehend what we've been through is real and it's devastating but it does get softer with time.   I'm almost 4 months out and I can tell you it's better now than it was so very early on.  

At 12:14pm on April 1, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, nayajivan. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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