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What to do?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Orb101214 Oct 9. 7 Replies

Recently lost my husband of 14 yrs at 35 yrs old 1 month ago. Don't know what to do with my self. Am so lost and confused. Currently in a world of hurt. I have support from family and friends but…Continue

 

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ncaru001 replied to Booklvr's discussion Husband died just 1 week ago
"Booklvr, So sorry for your loss. I too recently lost my husband of 14 yrs 1.5 months ago, he was 34 yrs old. It was truly a shock! Something we can't even comprehend. Took some time off work to take care of things. But when things started…"
Oct 15
Orb101214 replied to ncaru001's discussion What to do?
"I am in California and lost my husband last December.  I got a referral through the employee assistance at work and had a half hour consultation for free.  Most things you can do on your own, but it was nice to lay everything out and have…"
Oct 9
barbee replied to ncaru001's discussion What to do?
"So sorry you have joined us. No one chooses to be here. My husband passed almost five years ago after a very long illness. That gave me time to get many things into place so that financially I would be OK. I don't live in your state and your…"
Oct 6
CFredC replied to ncaru001's discussion What to do?
"First off:  None of this is to be construed as legal advice.As an attorney (TX, not CA), I would advise at least consulting with a lawyer.  Yes, a lot of things can get worked out without involving the legal process.  Things like…"
Oct 6
ncaru001 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"New widow at 35 yrs old. Husband suddenly passed at the age of 35 yrs old while at the gym. We were high school sweethearts, no kids. It’s now been 43 days. Pain is unbearable! Not sure how to get through this. Took care of everything from…"
Oct 3
Lupe's husband replied to ncaru001's discussion What to do?
"That's good advice, but if you are not good with paperwork and dealing with procedures, hire an attorney.   If you are patient, thorough and good with paperwork then I agree, no attorney needed in CA.    it is a community…"
Oct 1
Athena53 replied to ncaru001's discussion What to do?
"I'm neither an attorney nor in your state (state laws vary) but here are a few thoughts.  I never needed an attorney after DH's death because the house was in the name of a trust with me as trustee, we'd both signed the mortgage,…"
Sep 29
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What to do?

Recently lost my husband of 14 yrs at 35 yrs old 1 month ago. Don't know what to do with my self. Am so lost and confused. Currently in a world of hurt. I have support from family and friends but need something more. I live in CA and wonder if I need to hire an atty to make all the changes to our home title, car loans etc. am just so lost...
Sep 28
eliana left a comment for ncaru001
"Welcome to Widville, ncaru001. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit…"
Sep 28

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At 8:49am on September 28, 2017, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, ncaru001. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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