"jan 2nd will be one yrs and i am feeling pretty down. we decided we would go to his grave jan 1st. we go every 2nd of every month. his family doesn't go . christmas day his mother was walking down the street to my house thinking his was home.…"
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olemiss61 replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Stop by this Forum when you need a positive 'pick me up'
olemiss61 replied to Tamtunka's discussion Relationships with the "in-laws" after your spouse dies
"my husband had a heart transplant 12 yrs ago and his mother and other daughter tried to run us out of the hospital because they didn't think he would make it. over the 11 yrs they continually made snide comments until 6 months before he died…"
olemiss61 replied to Tamtunka's discussion Relationships with the "in-laws" after your spouse dies
"sorry about you lose and in law troubles. i thought i was the only one that felt like an outsider. my husband didn't even want to be around them."
olemiss61 replied to Episcopalian's discussion Finances
"we didn't have insurance and lived in a house owned by his mother since his heart transplant. i never worked, housewife and mother. i was lucky enough to just make it to collect ssi but not enough to make it so my daughter and husband lives…"
olemiss61 replied to Robinmo's discussion Friendships. What happened to them? And are YOU a good friend?
"my husband had friends .i had none no family close by. they all came to the wake never got a call or anything after that. his family even shut me and our daughter out. you find out who cares when you need help."
recent loss(Ron) left a comment for olemiss61
"Welcome olemiss61 Sorry for the reason your here but I am glad you found us. There Are some real friendly people here,Some with a whole lot of insight,and we all ynderstand what you are going through.Hope to see you in chat sometime
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olemiss61 replied to Tamtunka's discussion Relationships with the "in-laws" after your spouse dies
"i thought i was the only one with this problem. his grown daughter and son it's alll about the money for them. his mother always made remarks that i should have died instead of his ex wife. she bought the house we live in and it was in a trust…"
olemiss61 replied to missing my love...'s discussion Anyone experiencing challenges with adult step children?
"my husband and i were married 29yrs and he had a grown daughter and son . also his mother who controled everybody with her will. 12 yrs ago he had a heart transplant and almost didn't make it. at that time i saw where me and our daughter stood.…"
Joyce left a comment for olemiss61
"Welcome olemiss61: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and…"
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"So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. …"
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- At 4:25pm on October 27, 2012,
recent loss(Ron) said… Welcome olemiss61 Sorry for the reason your here but I am glad you found us. There Are some real friendly people here,Some with a whole lot of insight,and we all ynderstand what you are going through.Hope to see you in chat sometime
- At 11:00pm on October 23, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome olemiss61: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 11:52pm on October 22, 2012,
wannabmartha said… So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.
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