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A year later

Posted on July 16, 2013 at 8:29pm 9 Comments

 It has been almost a year now  that Zena passed  from this world to go to our father in Heaven. When Zena  first passed away I thought I wanted to Die.I gave up and just did not care. Only after  comeing on to WidowVillage and finding the people  like  my (current) wife Lori and my church did I decide I wanted to live. I have gone  from the east Coast  to the west coast and starting  all over again. I can say I want to live and explore all the parts of this world I have not seen. I will be…


Zena's Birthday

Posted on April 4, 2013 at 11:19am 5 Comments

Well it will be eight months sense I lost my love on her birthday. I have been very lucky that I was able to find love again after she passed.It has not been easy and I still miss Zena  so very much. But I am going on with my life as  she would have wanted. On April 10th I will do something for her as of right now I do not know what. I will honor her all the rest of my life  by being the best I can be in all I do. Lori is my wife now and i know  she wants me to honor Zena, Aug is coming up…


Gettin married

Posted on January 15, 2013 at 5:00am 17 Comments

 Back  five and a half months ago  my world Came crashing down around  me with my wife passing away from CHF. I was in a horrible place now and not wanting to live life in any way looking for a way out. Then as I was looking  for some  help with my Grief I found Widowed Village.  did not know about  how to grief the right way. and I came into chat one night crying I wanted to die and  the Good people were talking to me telling me I did have  things to live  for and that it was A NORMAL…



Posted on December 5, 2012 at 2:39am 4 Comments

It has been almost four months since My Zena passed on. I Miss her so very much. I have made it past Thanksgiveing and on the way to Christmas.I still wear  my wedding Ring and i do not know if i will take it off. But I do know Zena is Rooting me on to get through this journey of pain and to not continue  to be depressed and having to rely  on Meds. to keep from breaking out in tears at the drop of a hat. I have stopped not dealing with her passing and have made an effort to go out and start…


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At 6:51pm on September 30, 2014, kittycat said…

Has been many moons since I have visited this site but as my husband's birthday approaches I find myself replying to your request for friendship.  How are you doing during this Change of Seasons?  It seems to me that as the seasons change it brings with those feelings of loss.  The loneliness of knowing that once again you get into a cold bed, start the fire on your own and so on.  At the end of the day they are still not here....Blessings and comfort to you and know that you are not alone in your grief.

At 6:45am on October 12, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…
Hope y 'all are doing well:)
At 4:28pm on July 28, 2013, david1980 said…

Hi Ron, 

Thank you for wanting to be a "friend." Gladly accepted! I am positive that you sincerely miss your wife, Zena, as I miss mine, Ellen, but I know they both would want us to keep moving on in life to our best ability. I wish you luck on your journey and feel free to talk anytime. 

- Dave 

At 9:00pm on July 16, 2013, AZ_Cat said…

Hello the more we have in our "in box" the more wisdom I have received to help me get through this wrench that life threw at me.  I know the journey is one step at a time but sometimes I have found its ok if I can only put one foot down at a time.  Its not only a hole in my heart its a change of direction for my life.  All the words help me ponder and understand the "process" of grief and that everyone takes their own time.  Forever is a long long time isn't it.  ~Carol~

At 2:45pm on July 10, 2013, Mariposa said…

Thank you for your friend request, and please accept my condolences on your loss. I hope you find lots of supportive and understanding people here, as I know it has helped me. Peace, comfort, strength and healing to you.

At 7:10am on July 3, 2013, JerseyGirl said…

Thank you for the friend request.  So sorry for your loss.  But it's nice we have a place where all of us can gather virtually, and help each other.

Did I see something on your profile about "fixing things?"  That's all I feel like I've been doing since my husband passed away in January.  We did a lot of home projects together, so I'm trying to carry on as best I can without his help.

At 2:18pm on April 27, 2013, Tin_Woodman said…

Hi Ron,

Thanks for "friending" me.  My Kathi has been gone 2 1/2 years now, and while I still miss her every day, the really sharp pain has gone.



mike L.


At 3:48am on April 23, 2013, missmyhunny said…

Hi Ron,  Thankyou for your friend request. My Condolences on your loss, (((( ))))

At 7:41pm on April 6, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…
Hi Ron & Lori
Thanx for the support tonight on chat!'. Nice to know we share the same FAITH'!
I mentioned Easter & God used that cuz the woman whose husband shot himself in front of her we has some very good discussions'!!! And then sharing my FAITH... CATHY
At 7:41pm on April 6, 2013, JPSwifeCathy said…
Hi Ron & Lori
Thanx for the support tonight on chat!'. Nice to know we share the same FAITH'!
I mentioned Easter & God used that cuz the woman whose husband shot himself in front of her we has some very good discussions'!!! And then sharing my FAITH... CATHY

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