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riet
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riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Sweet Melissa, Maggie, Suzan, I do not know how it comes, but the loss of my husband is very difficult in these days. More difficult than before. It has to do with the beautiful days outside. His flowers that come again, the expectation of something…"
1 hour ago
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Hi dear friends. I believe and hope that all that sorrow will lead somewhere in the future. But at the moment this is not the case at all. I did not expect this either.But sometimes it does not work at all. In contrast to who I used to be, I now…"
21 hours ago
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"KJPE, Beautiful book. I find it in our local  library, even translated in my own language: Dutch. I sometimes want to act as that little girl: put my heart in a bottle to hide it away from grief.  In our region , today we had a most…"
Friday
booktime (Susan) left a comment for riet
"HI Riet, Thanks for your message. So sweet! You are making your way on this road no one wanted to be on. Special hugs to you today. Susan"
Thursday
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I have to tell you this silly story. I went to the garage this morning. The only thing that was wrong with the car were ..... my ears. No strange noises. Only panic too soon. So this whole situation would not have happened to my husband.…"
Feb 11
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Indeed how simple was life with my dear husband. And how full. I'm still recovering from my broken hip.It goes well. But how lonely is it sometimes. I am very well helped by nice people, but all the small consoling things he did for me no…"
Feb 10
riet commented on Pegasus's blog post Life Changes
"Everything has changed since my love died. Very much. Everything changed when he suddenly became incurably ill in 2014. But nothing can be compared to the time that came afterwards. The dreams are gone, the hope is gone. Away the little things to…"
Feb 1
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"The prospect of the coming year without him makes me frightened and depressed. I know that many beautiful things are coming. But everything will be without him. How do I do that? How can I then enjoy it? Yesterday there were suddenly two invitations…"
Jan 22
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2018
"Even after 9 months, the loss of my husband continues to hurt incredibly. KJPE, you say this so aptly: "because my body remembers how happy and lifted my heart would feel". And now that feeling never comes back. The shine and color has…"
Jan 18
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2018
"LP, How bad that you have to experience this. So terrible that this happens to young people. I hope for you that your attempts to get in touch with this family will work. You do everything that is possible. But what is that with some family members?…"
Jan 16
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Dear Susan,  Thank you so much for your comforting words. I needed them very much.  I will keep this in my heart. And read it again and again when difficult moments appear. Also hugs to you and to everyone having a hard time."
Jan 16
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"The dreams in which my husband lives are seldom pleasant. I see him and call him, and I know he hears me, but he can not answer and goes away.I am always broken after such a dream. I'm even afraid to go to bed at night. I would like to ask him…"
Jan 16
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2018
"June, I recognize your story. My husband died on April 20, 2018. I do not feel any progress since then. I miss him every moment. I can not believe that he is no longer there, and will never be there again. I also do not feel him near now. I am now…"
Jan 13
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I too have a difficult period in this new year. It does not feel like a new beginning at all. Just like a dull and pale remnant of what was once so wonderful.I received some travel brochures. Very interesting to do with my husband, but so useless…"
Jan 10
riet commented on only1sue's blog post Another year to walk alone
"Laurajay,  I broke my hip replacement and had a lot of self-pity .. I am recovering now, and had a lot of help from my children and grandchildren. I see how much worse your illness is. I miss my dear husband every moment, he helped me through…"
Jan 5
riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"The only way to survive all this is to become completely numb. Can this be true? These days between Christmas and New Year bring me so many memories. It was the time of us together. No obligations in this week. So , every year, we went on an…"
Dec 29, 2018

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At 4:12am on February 14, 2019, booktime (Susan) said…

HI Riet, Thanks for your message. So sweet! You are making your way on this road no one wanted to be on. Special hugs to you today. Susan

At 2:14pm on October 26, 2018, Melissa said…

Thank you so much, Riet. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I was so scared before the day that I think I got a lot out of my system. Be well, and much love to you.

Melissa

At 4:02am on October 5, 2018, booktime (Susan) said…

Hi riet!

Thanks for reaching out in friendship! Hugs!

Susan

At 9:06am on August 20, 2018, Allan_sch said…

We were married for 30 years. She was only 62. I just don't understand. I am living day by day and keeping busy

Have a great day 

At 8:18am on August 20, 2018, Allan_sch said…

I understand My wife pass on May 14th 

At 11:13am on June 17, 2018, Luv4Z said…

Melanoma started inside. Diagnosed Dec after wierd bruises then thought after surgery snd meds and radiation was fighting it but then started getting weaker and weaker than went to ER 2 hrs later had severe seizures and did not respond they said to wait 24 hrs but didn’t make it.  COR and all meadures tried. Absolutely a nightmare that haunts me daily 

At 3:44pm on June 16, 2018, Luv4Z said…

I truly appreciate you responding. You are the first one to comment. My husband fought cancer too but only for 6 months . Its all too fast and horrible. He was the love of my life of course. We only had 14 years it just wasn’t enough. Seems like if in stage 4 and mets to brain the treatment s just aren’t good enough. But I don’t know if it was his time it was his time but I will never understand it. It’s definitely shaken any faith I had. Pretty much trying to make it 5 minutes at a time. 

At 6:30pm on May 18, 2018, Patience said…


Welcome to Widville, riet.
I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. And the "chat room" is open 24/7.
Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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