"1. what was your 1st pet and his/her name? A cat, named.....Cat
2. Did you have a favorite stuffed animal as a kid? I had a bear. My mom maid it herself. She later made one for her 11 grandchildren.
3. What was…"
"Dear Friends,Thank you so much for your kind comments. I am very grateful that I can share these terrible experiences with you. And being understood, it did me so much good.Melissa, it would be nice if you could visit here. The Netherlands is very…"
"I crashed today. Dear friends thought to cheer me up with a cheerful whats app from both of them. They drank a glass of wine together. They reported that they were still in good health and hoped the same for me.They looked so happy at the age of 75…"
"1. When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up? a teacher
2. What was your favorite era? 60s, 70s, 80s, etc.? The 60s for the feeling of freedom coming, of fantastic music, feeling the sadness after the war…"
"Dear Suzan, and all friends
So nice to hear from you. These are very strange times now. It is unbelievable that we are experiencing something like this now and cannot share it with the one we would most like to have next to us.Life comes to a…"
This is unfortunately so true what you write. The sweetest of my life is gone. My soul mate, my sounding board, my comforter, my best friend whom I trusted more than myself.I know this will never come back. I don't want that at…"
"Roxi and Melissa,
You tell my story. How can you ever be happy again, after loosing the one that was the core and the cause of your happiness?
Lots of hugs to all of you in this everyday struggle indeed."
"I have never found so many perfect gifts for my darling like lately. Books, sweaters, shirts .....And I found out so many news items that he liked to know so much ....Then ... a little moment happy ... and the stifling reality comes again"
"I recognise that. Also almost two yearsafter the loss of my husband, the panic and the grief sometimes unexpectedly emerge strongly. And then I miss him so much that I can hardly move forward.I haven't changed anything in our house yet either.…"
"Dear Suzan and Linda,
I have the same experience as you. So many wonderful memories about Christmas. And now .... some things went wrong in the last year. So many misunderstandings... My husband was the sun around our family. It hurts a lot to see…"
"My husband would have turned 75 yesterday. We would have celebrated this birthday with our entire family and circle of friends. And now ... just silence. Many people called and took me to go for a drink somewhere to commemorate his birthday.But I…"
Melanoma started inside. Diagnosed Dec after wierd bruises then thought after surgery snd meds and radiation was fighting it but then started getting weaker and weaker than went to ER 2 hrs later had severe seizures and did not respond they said to wait 24 hrs but didn’t make it. COR and all meadures tried. Absolutely a nightmare that haunts me daily
I truly appreciate you responding. You are the first one to comment. My husband fought cancer too but only for 6 months . Its all too fast and horrible. He was the love of my life of course. We only had 14 years it just wasn’t enough. Seems like if in stage 4 and mets to brain the treatment s just aren’t good enough. But I don’t know if it was his time it was his time but I will never understand it. It’s definitely shaken any faith I had. Pretty much trying to make it 5 minutes at a time.
Welcome to Widville, riet. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. And the "chat room" is open 24/7. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.