"roamer...one yr ago mar 30th I sat as you did..at my beloved husband's gravesite. He had served in the army. I have the flag they gave me encased and frequently look to it remembering his love of country...we buried…"
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roamer commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"2 months today. Seems like 2 years - seems like 2 days. Laughing - crying. Fist one, then the other, then both at the same time. Happy memories/lonliness. Contrasts. Oximorons.Sleep too much. Can't…"
roamer commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Yesterday was seven weeks. Last night was the worst in a while as I kept dreaming that Dena was holding her arms out for a Hug, and as I took her in my arms, I woke to find them still empty, then the tears flow again"
kimkirt (KK) left a comment for roamer
"Hi Duane. I am so sorry for the reason that brings you here. I hope that you can find some comfort and hope here at WV. This site has truly saved me and to be among others who understand is comforting. Hugs to you. "
LaurieR left a comment for roamer
"Hello Duane. I am so sorry for your loss. I never really know what to say but welcome to this site. It is so very hard for people who have not lost their significant other to understand what your going through. People…"
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Dena Maria Wilhite, TSgt, USAF (Rert)
"Oh Roamer, like the pictures, brought back memories of my husband's ceremony. Hugs!"
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Dena Maria Wilhite, TSgt, USAF (Rert)
19 Jan 1956 - 14 Aug 2012
Internment, Ft Sam Houston National Cemetary
roamer commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Military families
"Hello, Duane here. I lost my wife Dena on 14 Aug 12. She was TSgt, USAF (Ret). She passed after a short 4.5 months after discovery of a Lymphoma tumor at the brain stem."
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- At 3:39am on March 27, 2013,
laurajay said… roamer...one yr ago mar 30th I sat as you did..at my beloved husband's gravesite. He had served in the army. I have the flag they gave me encased and frequently look to it remembering his love of country...we buried him in a private cemetery next to my father. Your photos take me back to that day. in some ways I miss him even more since that day. Longing every day my best friend was still with me. 44yrs. Lost. Even when you know they would want you to go on and be happy the heart says not yet...may be never. My prayer to you and thanks to your wife for her service to our country. Laurajay just joined here 5 days ago
- At 9:01am on September 20, 2012,
kimkirt (KK) said… Hi Duane. I am so sorry for the reason that brings you here. I hope that you can find some comfort and hope here at WV. This site has truly saved me and to be among others who understand is comforting. Hugs to you.
- At 10:38pm on September 19, 2012,
LaurieR said… Hello Duane. I am so sorry for your loss. I never really know what to say but welcome to this site. It is so very hard for people who have not lost their significant other to understand what your going through. People here all have lost their love and understand. I lost my husband on Easter Sunday 2012. He was born in 1957, he was to darn young and so was your lovely wife. The people on this site have helped me get through the darkness so far. For that I will be eternally grateful. When you are ready, read the blogs, write a blog or join in on the chat or just read the chat. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me. I will do my best to help you. I will send you a friend request, if you wish you can accept.
- At 10:21pm on September 18, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome roamer: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"
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