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I need some advice. I am a widower, who fell in love with a widow. Now, we are still in love but not dating... OMG this is so confusing!

Started this discussion. Last reply by laurajay Sep 25, 2018. 14 Replies

So I am here hoping to get input from others who may have been in this place.I lost my wife of 24 years in 2014 and have dated quite a bit since then.  No one has been able to make the spark that she…Continue


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At 7:37pm on October 19, 2017, Fluffycat52 said…

Hi rt66062, I read your story it was so sad, I know it is hard to love someone like me and my husband were married for 21 years and now he is gone he has been part of my life 21 years that is hard him not be part of it now but now I am single and I still cry for him to come back but he is gone and I need to live my life now I know we will see all our loved ones one day but it is really hard not seeing them now. Anyway, just wanted to let you know I enjoyed reading your story. Have a nice weekend and week. Your Friend, Lisa

At 8:34pm on September 23, 2017, Fluffycat52 said…

So sorry for your loss, my husband passed away on June 12th 2016, he had Congestive Heart Failure, he suffered a year and a half he is not suffering anymore he is a free Spirit now my name is Lisa hope you have a nice rest of your weekend and week, this is a very nice site to be on where people know what we are going through. Your Friend, Lisa

At 9:12pm on September 22, 2017, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, rt66062.  I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.


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