"My heart is heavy for all the newcomers. ((Hugs)) This i a great site to have for we all get it here. Our children, & the love we shared with our spouses will get us putting one foot in front of another every day, & remembering to…"
"I had to change everything since we were living while we were doing a huge remodel. Once I got my own apartment I decorated it with both old & new things.
I also had to change cars our lease was up & I cancelled the Tundra we had on…"
"Chris your right it's hard to learn how to have a life of our own. Jim & I were only married just shy of four years, but like he always said "we were meant to be". I had to replace a few things quickly for we were doing a huge…"
"Kellymia, When my stepson & I came back from his soccer game, we notice the bobcat Jim rented was in a strange spot. I parked then we found the bobcat still running & Jim pinned kinda danling on the side. Ty ran to see if he could get the…"
"Crying so very true.... It's hard to understand Why our loved ones were taken from us. Remember you have all of us here walking this journey with you... I still feel I'm taking a few steps back, but I tell myself it's ok as long as I…"
"Hi Cindymi & Soleil, So sorry for your losses. This is a great group, for we all get it. You can also check out (meetup.com) to see if there is a widow/widower group near where you live. I have joined one here in AZ and go when I need to…"
"@bigfatchunkylover57, you are absolutely right, it will be 4 years for me and I still have those days.....We have to remember to breathe and take one step at a time. Sometimes as far along I am it just hits me and I have to take a step and…"
"Jim & I did talk about the what to do's. We decided that who ever surived would keep the others ashes and have the kids take us both (now when I pass) to be released together. So needless to say put Jim in an biodegradeable urn which is now…"
Welcome to Widowed Village. You’ve come to a wonderful place filled with those who "get it". Joining groups is a great way to get connected to others who have similar experiences. Jump into some of the forum discussions, request some friends, try out the chat room, just immerse yourself in this very special place. I look forward to getting acquainted with you here in Widville.