"M'Lady: Don't ever apologize for how you feel and crazy we've all been there. I also had multiple losses Dad, Mom and husband all in 14 months for me so I truly get what you're saying.
Crying is good; songs yes they can knock you…"
You are not alone waiting for the phone to ring for someone to remember the anniversary; only those of us who have lost understand your sorrow and your loss and you know it's okay to feel like you do."
"Thank you shayne for your sweet comment on my blog. As you know some days are harder than others, but knowing God is totally in control gives me a security that is hard to explain to some. Blessings on you tonite as you sleep. Joy"
Thank you so much for your posting; I too am a Christian and you have reminded me again of my need to be more thankful for what God gives me rather than what I have lost.
I wish all of us on this grief journey continued peace and comfort…"
"Good Morning to All:
I haven't written much lately; but had to write today.
Today is 4 years since I lost my Daddy and I miss him so very much; the beginning of many losses; but also a happy time as I still had my husband Tim and we were…"
"Hi dublin53: I just read your post and I understand; I feel the same way at Kroger, at the mall, at church, everywhere. I say to family/friends, everyone has someone, I'm the only person alone-this was not what we had planned. Maybe someday…"
One more thing;I am so lonely, Is anyone else lonely? I don't mean lonely for another mate; just lonely. My husband was my best friend and we did everything together.My closest girlfriends of 30 plus years both live in…"
"To All Who Have Commented Below:
I agree with missing the physical affection; the hugs expecially. My husband was a huge hugger, we always held hands and were very close; coming home at night with no one to share the day with; no to make plans with.…"
"I haven't been on the board in sometime; but Bad Ass Widow your comments really hit me. My husband Tim was diagnosed with lung cancer June 12, 2009 and I lost him 84 days later; so I understand your delayed widow and admire you and finding…"
Thank you shayne for your sweet comment on my blog. As you know some days are harder than others, but knowing God is totally in control gives me a security that is hard to explain to some. Blessings on you tonite as you sleep. Joy
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