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shiichooisme replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Good one Mac! Better than a slap in the face!"
shiichooisme replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Way to go Mac! That was better than a slap in the face! Alot of brainless people out there!
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shiichooisme replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"No judgement here! Everybody grieves differently! Whatever you feel is what you feel! Sometimes you just wish people would mind their own business and quit telling you how to feel or be. My Hubby and I have a big house. 6 bedrooms, 2 1/2 ba, with a…"
shiichooisme replied to missing my love...'s discussion Anyone experiencing challenges with adult step children?
"I am a step-mom to 2 step-daughters (he adopted her child. she hates me soo bad, so I don't count her). My hubby and I were together for 17 years. I can say that I have had my share of what you have gone through. I met their Dad after their…"
shiichooisme replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Ok...That one goes into the books for the stupidest story ever! I would have just walked away and left her talking to herself!"
shiichooisme replied to Episcopalian's discussion Finances
"I tried on the medical but because I own a home and several cars, I don't qualify for any of the government benefits because of this. :/ Thats our government for you... I tried to get state AMI (adult medical insurance) but because I have a…"
shiichooisme replied to missing my love...'s discussion Anyone experiencing challenges with adult step children?
"My dear hubby had 2 daughters from his previous marriage. The older lived with us after her mother no longer wanted to deal with her. She was 14. Was with us until she decided to move out at 18. The younger lived with the mother. When my husband had…"
shiichooisme replied to Episcopalian's discussion Finances
"I'm soo in the same predicament! I get people telling me that why don't I get widow's benefit from social security? Well I fall into the category of the "too young." I'm going to be 50 this year. Can't collect…"
shiichooisme replied to mimi's discussion I hate Saturday Nights
"I feel the same way! I live with my 2 daughters and they have their own lives to live. Me I feel like I'm in a vegitative state. I miss my hubby's company! Night time was ours to sit and talk, go out to dinner and a movie, or watch a game…"
shiichooisme replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"My poor daughter had something similar happen to her at school. My husband died in the summer, 17 days before her 16th Birthday. The new school year had started when after about a month or so her teacher told her her Dad called and said he would…"
shiichooisme replied to Jill's discussion Share one small but very special, unique trait or memory about your late spouse. Something to make you and the rest of us smile.
"Before my Beloved Jeff passed. I used to catch him staring at me with such a look of Love in his eyes. I felt like a school girl, only he could make me blush that way. I used to say nervously "Whaaat?" His reply. "Your just soo…"
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shiichooisme replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I gave them the address and phone number to where my hubby was buried. If they had any problems they could contact him there, but I doubt they would get a call back from him... :/"
shiichooisme replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
""Oh you're young, you can find somebody else." Hmmm really! Like my beloved husband was a breeze in the wind... Never mind the history that we two have shared, or the Love I still feel for him.
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- At 10:16am on August 31, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
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- At 7:30pm on August 17, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome shechuisme: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 7:13am on August 17, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm so very sorry for your loss, shechuisme, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site InfoJoin the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.
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