"My husband's daughter and I had a falling out after John died. She had endured many of her dad's relationships/girlfriends over the years, before John and I were together. And it was important to her to be the most important…"
"Well, I finally changed the sheets. It was really hard. Most times we changed the sheets together. He would volunteer to tuck the fitted sheet in the farthest away corner and I would thank him. He would complain about all the…"
"Mrs.Hehar, I love your 'fking'. I'm pretty straight, proper, and my husband would use the 'fking' word and I loved it. My husband died suddenly and unexpectedly on 11/10/17. I can feel my heart race…"
"Shoosie2, I so loved your post. Of course I know what a 'fat pad' is. I come from a long line of cat lovers and have seen plenty of old fat bellies swinging back and forth. Sweet that we had the same experiences with our…"
"Barzan, I'm so jealous. Would give anything to feel that not even all the time, but some times. Spooning- such a treasure. Miss it so much. To no avail, I would tell my husband not to rest his hand on my paunchy…"
"So it kind of snuck up on me. I can sort of get through the days; but the nights are really hard. And I realized that I'm up to a bottle of wine/night plus various drugs. I realized that I'm not just trying to get to…"
"Well.... my husband may have answered my question. When we lived in San Francisco, my husband would get up early, before heading to work, when it was still dark, and bicycle to the Golden Gate Park Rose Garden to pick me a rose.…"
"I'm so confused. It seems like when I'm the most overwhelmed, the most fragile, crying the hardest, I can't feel connected to my husband. Several weeks ago, for a split second when I was waking up in the morning, it felt…"
"Maggie, My husband and I had been arguing before he died, we were sort of disconnected, making mountains out of molehills. And when I felt only a bottomless pit after he died, no connection at all, I also felt that he had stopped loving me and…"
"Mike, My husband and I were very close and for about a year before his death we were practicing 'telepathic' communication. We tried little things- suggesting a phone call, picking up something at the grocery store, a crossword…"
"I am actually feeling a little okay today. I know this web site has something to do with that- thank you all. Also, last night in my weekly support group, I spoke about my husband for the first time. It will be six months for me on…"
"Yes, Slick. Exactly! Always after having an overwhelmingly sad day/evening. And I don't know if it's because I feel rested or because I may have sensed his presence or maybe neither- but I feel a little lighthearted…"
"Slick, Just lately there have been a few times when I felt like he was in bed with me. Yes, the feeling was fleeting and only for a second. I would feel him as I woke up, realizing that I had some restful sleep. "
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