"jlsrdh, I absolutely believe in everything you said. I was told that my husband could hear me if I was thinking about him and/or talking to him silently. But I will start speaking out loud.
Last week I spent an entire day cleaning…"
"Hey Melissa, What a terrible, terrible story. I can't imagine how hard that must have been. I've had problems with John's daughter, but nothing like what you went through. I'm assuming you're still angry…"
"Oh, Melissa. What a horrible dream! Are you having problems with your sisters & brothers in law? I've had some weird and scary dreams but being cut with knives and jagged things- really awful. I'm so…"
"These days I often dream about John. Sometimes the dreams are comforting. In one recent dream I was standing next to him and put my head on his shoulder. I can still feel the warmth from that connection, the electricity between us.…"
"I also get posts randomly.
Regarding the journey: I was at work this past Wednesday (I work in a school-age after-school childcare program) and I felt fine, not sad, not thinking about John. Actually, I'd had several good…"
"It's been 13 months for me and sometimes, just for a split second, I forget that he's gone. I'll think, 'I better finish this, John will be home soon' or 'I haven't heard from John, I wonder what's going…"
"Harvard, MD Anderson & Mayo Clinic maintain a database of 7 million cancer patients with 28 kinds of cancer. A woman named Joan DelFattore, herself a cancer survivor, researched 59 studies from this database and found that single women…"
"I appreciate this group so much. Got lots of excellent advice after my last post (where to live). I've been thinking a lot about where I would best recuperate after serious injury or illness. Yesterday a friend of mine helped…"
"Thanks so much, all. I really value your opinions. I know how fortunate I am to have options and resources. I'm just so tired- traveling/driving 500+ miles each week. Really want to settle in somewhere. Hopefully…"
"I'd like to get some advice. I need to figure out where I want to live. My situation is complicated- I'll try to keep it brief. I work at a daycare center in San Francisco, CA. I've worked there since 1982 and…"
"Riet, I've had the same experience many times. (There are many older men with white hair and beards wearing Tilly shorts/hats in Santa Cruz, CA) Most recently I saw a man riding a bicycle- same body, same white hair, same beard,…"
Dear Shelley, I want to offer my thoughts to you on this terrible anniversary. It is as if one crippled wants to offer support to the other. I hope you can take good care of yourself today. A lot of hugs
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