"sadderbytheday, yes. I think about chemotherapy, etc & side effects and I become completely immobile. Sad, angry, missing John more. Trying instead to think about when it will be over and done and what a relief that will be.…"
"Thank you for the sweet story, laurajay. Roses. John and I lived in San Francisco. Golden Gate Park has the most beautiful Rose Garden. And on the days that John left early for work, he would bicycle into the rose garden,…"
"I'm so sorry, Mary. My husband's death was also unexpected. I don't remember how many days he was in the hospital, but I was not happy with his care. And KJPE, yes the malaise. I've taken a leave of…"
"Ultra2015, Almost 26 months for me. I stopped thinking I have to call him. But there are other things. Startled and saddened at times remembering he's gone. I can go through the motions. Work, seeing friends,…"
"Thanks, Lissa. Googled Kathryn Lodato and she seems like exactly what I need. The drive time on a regular basis would be hard right now. But I will contact her and ask if she has a San Francisco recommendation. Her bio…"
"Thank you, Melissa. Yes, I think you're right. Someone to vent to. I've completely isolated myself. A very nice social worker called me, said to call her if I need anything. Think I'll start with her.…"
"Thinking about heading back to therapy. I continue to miss John a lot. Cry all the time. Widow brain thriving. And now dealing with breast cancer- feeling more apathy than advocacy. Procrastinating partly because I…"
"I did not sleep well in our bed after John died. For many reasons that I think are familiar to many of us. When I was forced to move, I decided to get a single bed. It was the right decision. It's been sweetly…"
"Thank you all for the excellent advice. Just writing down what I'm doing helped me see that I'm not thinking clearly. Yes, control is an issue. Yes, still grieving. Trying to put my world into a neat, tiny bubble-…"
"I'm so sorry, Tek. Recently lost my Bailey, my husband's favorite. I've been very fortunate over the years to have had the funds for very expensive vet bills. Drove my husband crazy how much I would spend.…"
Dear Shelley, I want to offer my thoughts to you on this terrible anniversary. It is as if one crippled wants to offer support to the other. I hope you can take good care of yourself today. A lot of hugs
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