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shelley
  • Female
  • Santa Cruz, CA
  • United States
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shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Wish I'd figured it out before I ate a whole box of cookies.  "
Jul 4
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Thank you, susanelizabeth (also my sister's name).  I couldn't figure out why I was such a wreck all day today.  It's a holiday!  I forgot it's a holiday!  Yes, I can remember all the Fourth of Julys we spent…"
Jul 4
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I went out with a friend last night, first time I've been out at night since my husband died.  Had an okay time but coming home was hard.  Started sobbing around midnight and have pretty much been crying since.  Yes, holidays are…"
Jul 4
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Having such a hard day today."
Jul 4
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I had a dream this morning about my husband.  I don't dream about him very often and when I do, I can see him in the dream but he doesn't speak or move.  I talk to him, touch him, feel close to him, but he doesn't respond.…"
Jul 1
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2017
"I had a dream this morning about my husband.  I don't dream about him very often and when I do, I can see him in the dream but he doesn't speak or move.  I talk to him, touch him, feel close to him, but he doesn't respond.…"
Jul 1
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I had a dream this morning about my husband.  I don't dream about him very often and when I do, I can see him in the dream but he doesn't speak or move.  I speak to him, touch him, feel close to him, but he doesn't respond.…"
Jul 1
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Pianogrl68, I also laid next to husband, holding him, stroking him, kissing him as he died, begging him to come back.  Living without him is so hard.    "
Jun 26
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Am feeling so sad today.  Crying hard since waking up this morning.  All day today remembering the little things that made him so special.  It's almost 8 months for me.  I am absolutely lost.  Have had some okay days,…"
Jun 26
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"NoLongerinBergenJC, I like your comment, 'lost 2/3 of who you've been... the Him and the US'.  I feel so incredibly lost so much of the time.  Have no idea who I am or who I want to be.  Losing 2/3 is a comforting…"
Jun 24
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Suggestions welcomed-  what do you do when you're just so lonely and miss your spouse so much?"
Jun 22
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I honor your privacy, laurajay.  I am someone who benefits from sharing it all.  "
Jun 19
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"IamTheStorm, I am so extremely impressed that you talked about masturbation.  Really,  Really, Really.  I brought up the subject of sex in one grief group (only women) and the response was silence.  I brought it up to another…"
Jun 19
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Thank you, Athena53.  I enjoyed your post.  "
Jun 18
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Oh, laurajay,  Thank you so much for your post.  I've had a very hard couple of days.  Sobbing that I can't seem to stop.  Your post was lighthearted and made me smile.  Yes, I agree with you completely.  "
Jun 17
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I enjoy reading these posts.  My husband and I had a very active and satisfying sex life and I miss it alot.  I've been in several grief groups and the topic of sex has only been brought up once-  I think it should be talked…"
Jun 17

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At 9:14pm on January 4, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, shelley. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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