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shelley
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  • Santa Cruz, CA
  • United States
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shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Suggestions welcomed-  what do you do when you're just so lonely and miss your spouse so much?"
yesterday
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I honor your privacy, laurajay.  I am someone who benefits from sharing it all.  "
Wednesday
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"IamTheStorm, I am so extremely impressed that you talked about masturbation.  Really,  Really, Really.  I brought up the subject of sex in one grief group (only women) and the response was silence.  I brought it up to another…"
Wednesday
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Thank you, Athena53.  I enjoyed your post.  "
Monday
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Oh, laurajay,  Thank you so much for your post.  I've had a very hard couple of days.  Sobbing that I can't seem to stop.  Your post was lighthearted and made me smile.  Yes, I agree with you completely.  "
Jun 17
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I enjoy reading these posts.  My husband and I had a very active and satisfying sex life and I miss it alot.  I've been in several grief groups and the topic of sex has only been brought up once-  I think it should be talked…"
Jun 17
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you, Mrs.Hehar.  Yes, when I was in shock, I didn't have these thoughts.  Now that the veil has lifted a little, I find myself thinking he's still here somewhere.  Maybe I'm incorporating him into my current life.…"
Jun 13
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I have a question but first some background.  My husband died suddenly and unexpectedly on November 10, 2017.  My therapist says my PTSD is subsiding.  I feel a little more clear-headed.  This past Saturday I actually had an okay…"
Jun 13
shelley replied to Shoosie2's discussion Giving Myself a Panic Attack in the group Born in the 50s
"NoLongerinBergenJC, I really enjoyed your post.  Good advice.  "
Jun 9
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"I'm sorry, LP.  I have also been disappointed by oldest and dearest friends; and surprised at how other people I was not so close to "get it".  It just makes things worse to find out how clueless and insensitive people close…"
Jun 2
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Just realized how appropriate the term 'absent minded' is to describe grief brain.  I'm going to start saying 'absence minded'.  "
May 31
shelley replied to Shoosie2's discussion Deja Vu all over again? in the group Born in the 50s
"Oh, Steph,  So sorry to hear what a hard time you're having.  I really, really understand.  I was so proud of myself for getting through my husband's memorial on Saturday with grace and purpose.  Then started slipping…"
May 31
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Gary'swife, Wow, congratulations.  Your efforts made a difference.  That's a big deal.  "
May 29
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I'd just like to give myself a little credit.  With the advice and support of the members of this website, I was able to attend my stepdaughter's "Celebration of Life" for my husband and support her efforts.  It took…"
May 28
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"SweetMelissa2007, Just watched on Amazon the trailer for "Kingdom Come".  Looking forward to watching it all this weekend.  Thank you!"
May 28
shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Melissa, Yes, I didn't even file a complaint against the convalescent home where my dad died.  I was just so sad.  Didn't have the energy.   And my husband-  I wondered at the time if I should have moved him to a better…"
May 28

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At 9:14pm on January 4, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, shelley. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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