"Mrs. Hehar, Hospice of the Valley has grief support groups and counselors. Might be a good place to start. I know what you mean about the anxiety. My heart rate & blood pressure went through the roof after my husband died.…"
"My dad's death was absolutely caused by malpractice. Two attorneys reviewed his medical records and told me so. However they were not willing to sue Kaiser because my dad's life was not valuable enough. In California, the…"
"I'm so sorry, Melissa. You've been so supportive of me and many others. You've comforted me, dragged me out of some deep dark holes. Your words are always clear and direct, going straight to the heart of the matter.…"
"Thanks so much. Figured if Melissa could offer to drive for seven hours to comfort me, I had to do something for myself. So I went to the gym. Guess I'm more sad than I realized because the endorphins did not help.…"
"Thanks, Melissa. So sweet of you to offer your company. I've had some dark days. The dreams have been exhausting & I then have no energy during the day. And have isolated myself which I know is one of the worst…"
"My life: Wake up, crawl out of bed, shake off the dreams, do whatever it takes to get through the day. 9:00pm begin wine and drugs to encourage sleep. Dream about searching for husband, often finding him dead. Wake up, crawl…"
"My life: wake up, shake off the dreams, do whatever it takes to get through the day. 9:00pm begin wine and drugs to help me sleep. Dream about searching for my husband, often finding him dead. Wake up, shake off the dreams.…"
"My life: Wake up, shake off the dreams, do whatever it takes to get through the day. 9:00pm, begin wine and drugs to help me fall asleep. Dream about searching for my husband, often finding him dead. Wake up, shake off the…"
"Thank you, susanelizabeth (also my sister's name). I couldn't figure out why I was such a wreck all day today. It's a holiday! I forgot it's a holiday! Yes, I can remember all the Fourth of Julys we spent…"
"I went out with a friend last night, first time I've been out at night since my husband died. Had an okay time but coming home was hard. Started sobbing around midnight and have pretty much been crying since. Yes, holidays are…"
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