"6 months today, six long dark months.. I can't believe I have gone 6 months without my David. Seems like forever and seems like yesterday. At this point I am sad and I just feel so unnecessary.. No children, he had 2 children…"
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snydergirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Unwedded widows & widowers
"Bailey 84, welcome to our group, your story sounds like Dave & I, we were together for 24 years, and he passed away also suddenly on Aug 22, 2012.. We buried David on August 27, 2012, because my birthday is August 28th, Forever now a sad…"
snydergirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"I have realized how alone I am, we also live in Florida, and no one will come here now, since Dave is gone, It's too hard for them...For them, this is my life and every day is too hard...But I'm supposed to be understanding, I'm still…"
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snydergirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Weekends were our time, Home on friday night, order chinese and just hang out together, didn't care if we saw another person until Monday..God I miss my "GROUCH ON THE COUCH", I'm at 5 months and dread the weekends, especially…"
snydergirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Brokenand joyless, David and I owned a business, We do Aerial Cable Construction, he was the muscle and I was the paper. I wasn't sure how that was going to work out and the decision I made was that if I had to work hard to keep it…"
snydergirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"I promised David I wouldn't leave him, so when he told to go home, I stalled, but he finally said, for the 3rd time Jeanne, go home I'll see you tomorrow..The hospital called me at midnight, and I didn't hear the phone, so they the…"
snydergirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"It will be 4 months on the 22nd, I can't even wrap my head around that, we were together 24 years, i have never gone 4 months without talking to David... I am crazed"
snydergirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"The doctors told us from the beginning that he had 3 years, he din't even last a year, I just wasn't ready, he was, he was miserable and sick and tired and so angry. it just isn't fair"
snydergirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I saw an analogy about vines intertwining and they need to be pruned, you never notice that they have been pruned but, they have to heal in order to grow,, so true"
snydergirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I am having hard time with all I asked the doctors over and over, is he dying, and they said no, until the last day, only one doctor would tell me the truth of this, and he told me Dave had 2 weeks, maybe 2 months, he had 12 hours. I was…"
snydergirl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I feel like I failed David because I was watching his blood work,and it was bad and he refused to go to the hospital, I finally had to force him and by then it was too late. i promised him I wouldn't leave him, he sent me home and then he…"
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- At 4:01pm on September 20, 2012,
LaurieR said… Hello Snydergirl. I am so sorry for your loss. I never really know what to say but welcome to this site. It is so very hard for people who have not lost their significant other to understand what your going through. People here all have lost their love and understand. When I first came to this site a person told me If I was meant to be be there when Ron died, I would have been there. This really gave me comfort. I personally believe that guilt and grief go hand and hand. It not like grief isn't hard enough without the added torture of guilt. I would not beat myself up over not being there. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me. I will do my best to help you. I will send you a friend request, if you wish you can accept.
- At 9:16pm on September 18, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome snydergirl: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"
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