If I had one hour to talk to my wife I would tell her how much I love her! How she changed my life for the better. I would tell her it was an honor to care for her, to be with her, and if I could…Continue
"I was thinking of posting some pictures but it makes me feel a bit too vulnerable and exposed. The 22nd will be one full year. November 22nd at 10:20 PM
The way to describe this year is like "Alice through the Looking Glass."…"
"I am so sorry that you are experiencing this agonizing pain. The pain of losing a lover is unlike anything I have ever experienced. I would like to share this with you if I may, without sounding arrogant or callous, that is not my intent.
I too have…"
"I wear Helens wedding ring on my left hand little finger and the last ring I bought her, a buckle ring on my right little finger. I to will move out of our to big house at some stage its at that point that I will have to start going through…"
"I removed my ring a few months after my wife died. I wore it around my neck when I ran a marathon to honor her. Its with my bib number now, framed on the wall. The intention isn't to promote myself, but to honor actually two wives that died of…"
"I am really sorry (You probably hear that a lot, everyone is sorry)
It is overwhelming those first few months-I don't need to tell you that. Do you have family? Friends and family members can be very helpful, they can't take the pain…"
"Any man or woman for that matter, who preys on vulnerable people in any setting, particularly in a grief support group should be asked to leave the group. Goes for the participants and the facilitator. There is no excuse for anyone taking advantage…"
Hi Soulmate, I am sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 5 months ago and the pain that I have experienced is worse than I could imagine. It made me think that you really don't understand what it is like to lose a spouse until it happens to you. This site has been a blessing to me that it has enabled me to talk to other widowed people that truly understand what you are going through. I hope you too find the support you need here.