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Started this discussion. Last reply by Nance63 Feb 6. 3 Replies

Hello...my name is Linda. Today is day 109 since my husband died. He died unexpectedly of a heart attack at work. I kissed him goodbye not realizing it would be the last time. Since then I had to put…Continue

 

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Susan replied to spiritual dragonfly (Linda)'s discussion Our Loved Ones Birthday.... in the group Widowed in 2016
"Linda, I love the picture!  Thank You for sharing! Susan"
Nov 29
Susan replied to spiritual dragonfly (Linda)'s discussion Our Loved Ones Birthday.... in the group Widowed in 2016
"Hi!    Paul passed away on Dec. 7th. 2017 ... Next month will make 1 year.  As for our birthdays. mine is Dec. 11th and his was Dec. 15.  Not sure what I'll do though. Susan"
Nov 25
spiritual dragonfly (Linda) replied to spiritual dragonfly (Linda)'s discussion 52 Weeks...Missing Him in the group Widowed in 2016
"Thank you so much Nieta ❤"
Oct 20
Nieta replied to spiritual dragonfly (Linda)'s discussion 52 Weeks...Missing Him in the group Widowed in 2016
"Dear Spiritual Dragonfly, Your beautiful poem echoes my sentiments.  It's been 3 years, 8 months and a day since my darling crossed over. Love is indeed the element of us that continues to grow beyond the body's demise. Wishing you…"
Oct 13
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52 Weeks...Missing Him

It’s been 52 weeks since he left…..BUT…..[The body dies…but love… well that lives on and continues to grow]I’ve Missed Your FaceI’ve Missed Your SmileI’ve Missed Your LaughAll this while….But what I Miss mostIs Who We Used to be..The we – we wereWhen it was You and Me.You’re gone from this worldBut you LIVE in my heartTill we meet againAnd are no longer apart.I love you husbandI always willOur love hasn’t diedIt grows and LIVES still.©lindaferrier_october13,2017See More
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His First Birthday In Heaven

Posted on February 21, 2017 at 4:30am 0 Comments

Happy Birthday in Heaven....

I Miss you Husband
My Beloved Best Friend..
Your smile, your laugh
Your love that transcends...

On this, your first birthday
That we are apart
I draw strength from our love
And when the tears start.....

I'll cry my river
While deep within my soul
I feel you with me
And for a little while, I'll pretend I'm whole.
©lindaferrier_february2017

Yesterday

Posted on February 18, 2017 at 11:48am 0 Comments

Had a rough day yesterday....

The worst since he left.

Tears, sobbing and puffy eyes

Left me feeling spent....



It was a long time coming

Something I've put off

Avoidance isn't the answer

Acceptance at all cost....



I know time is a healer

There is no calendar with grief

I'm grateful for the purge I had

It did bring some relief.....



Today is a new day

Sun is shining bright

The purge left me lighter

I know… Continue

Week 18...Day 126..Without You

Posted on February 17, 2017 at 6:15am 0 Comments

Today is Week 18...Day 126 since he left...I know my heart and soul are slowly healing, but I lost a huge part of myself that day.....

You departed unexpectedly
And left me alone.

Alone in limbo
Belonging no where.

I am a refugee
Wandering
Looking for my missing soul....
©lindaferrier_january2017

New Beginnings...

Posted on February 16, 2017 at 10:00am 2 Comments

This popped up on my newsfeed in FB yesterday.....



(The endings in our lives are just doorways through which we pass in our ever expanding journey through eternity into greater and more magnificent love.



In human form, we cling to the familiar. That is the way our brain wires itself. Still, the unknown offers adventure, growth, new possibility!



What is ending in your life right now? What promise of new beginning does it hold?



Rather than looking back,… Continue

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At 12:15pm on January 29, 2017,
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Soaring Spirits
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Welcome to Widville, spiritual dragonly. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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