"I know this is way off topic, but when you get a call or a text I HATE getting exciting thinking it's him. He used to call and text me all thru the night when i was at work and I just lost my breathe thinking it was him and realizing that…"
"I was jsut on a dating site the other day.. just to see if i could even remember how to look at men ;) i can say I did not see anything appealing. I still that my husband was perfect for me and HOT and i dont know what i want. I feel…"
Jan 28, 2012
srr728 just added their location. (via Member Map)
"Within an hour of finding my Hubs I hadn't even closed my mouth in shock, his Sister shows up ans her first words to me were " what am I going to tell my boys? ( they are 6 and 8)". I had to stop myself from saying " I don't…"
"Its heartbreaking to think im at 6 weeks and there are newcomers after me, i hope you can find comfort here amongst us.. We truly understand not knowing what to do the next minute let alone years of your life. You had so many plans and…"
"Stephanie, I"m so sorry for your loss, but so glad you've found us. I completely empathize with the trouble remembering your life is different now...I lost my 34 year old husband suddenly to a heart attack June 28, 2011. I never would have…"
"brenda i just wanna hug you girl! i care.
it is just a comfort to read all the different posts and know that you arent alone.
I agree@ wanderer!
My prob is my Hub's sister. She is one of my friends, i love her dearly, his…"
"I agree about God, we were both raised Catholic and while we didnt attend mass, we were very spiritual. we both prayed and talked to God a lot. my faith has saved me so far. Knowing that he is ok and happy is…"
"im so glad you are here Natkim! you will make friends, and you can talk to us. Heck I just joined and I feel like i fit in. We know, and are going the same path.
Im sorry for your loss , its not something anyone plans for and just…"
"i'm crying because i feel so welcomed by all that left me messages. im humbled by the outpouring of empathy. i hope i can lend the same support as time goes on. thank you jimswife, drummer, suddenly, chris, cat, kimkirt and mary!"
"thank you for all the welcomes! i appreciate the fact that you all understand i just cant even say.
Texassky, welcome, as I lost mine in December too, its only been weeks and its a fresh hell. Im so sorry for your loss. we all know of…"
Stephanie, I"m so sorry for your loss, but so glad you've found us. I completely empathize with the trouble remembering your life is different now...I lost my 34 year old husband suddenly to a heart attack June 28, 2011. I never would have imagined this was on our horizon...we, too, envisioned growing old together. I mourn the loss of our future almost as much as I mourn him, if that makes any sense....anyway, just wanted to say welcome, and I understand, and hope you are finding the same comfort here among WVers that I have.
I'm so very sorry for your loss, srr, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. I see you've already joined the groups that fit you - that's a great way to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.