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The Week So Far.....

Posted on February 25, 2016 at 5:48am 3 Comments

    Another week closer to the four month mark.   It seems like time should be dragging by but it is going just as fast or faster that it ever has.  I asked a close relative yesterday if it was awful that I was starting to make decisions about my home that my spouse probably wouldn't have been on board for.  This afternoon, a load of crush and run is being delivered for the space in front of the new barns and parking areas that were dug out…


Paperwork, if I ever get caught up.....

Posted on February 16, 2016 at 5:47am 0 Comments

     Usually, I am a pretty organized person.  I devised a household bookkeeping method years ago that , if kept up with, made tax time much less of a headache.  I should mention that my beloved was happy to let me handle filing our joint return.  I always laughed when I told him that he only cared about the yellow sticky note I gave him every year showing how much of a refund we were getting. I will miss that ritual…


Survived My First Valentine's Day Since

Posted on February 15, 2016 at 4:54am 2 Comments

      I thank God everyday for my children.   They have been so incredibly strong for me and the love I have for them is so deep that words are inadequate and pale.   Thanks to them, Valentine's Day weekend was not only bearable but actually enjoyable.   Saturday was spent in the North Carolina Mountains, antiquing and having lunch, then pizza and a movie that night.  Valentine's Day was spent being…


The Unknown Journey, 3 Months, 4 Days In

Posted on February 14, 2016 at 7:14am 2 Comments

    Ok, here's my story:  Just having celebrated our 35th wedding anniversary, I lost my love, my best friend, my soulmate, my lifebonded partner three days before his 56th birthday in November.   In seven months, we went from everything looking good and in the clear to losing him from metastasized colon cancer. Our son got married in November and my beloved lasted until the day after the wedding,…


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At 7:20pm on February 13, 2016, judy said…

Hi Sunfeathers,

Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.


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