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sunshinesoon
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sunshinesoon replied to MomoftwinsinCanada's discussion Introduction-feeling lost in the group Widowed in 2018
"Hi momoftwins, Reading your post I completely related.  My husband died of cancer 3 months ago and I have a four year old.  I'm busy and there are days where I cry a little but make it through the day and then there are other days…"
6 hours ago
Noelene T commented on sunshinesoon's blog post Treading water
"I am so sorry for your loss.it must be even harder when you have a small child who misses his daddy, i hope you have some support as I have through my wonderful friends, hope Christmas is not too painful or you. Xx"
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Rainy (Misty) commented on sunshinesoon's blog post Treading water
"(Sunshine)  I'm sorry for your recent loss.  I am almost a year out and have a 16yr old at home.  My situation is a bit unique in that, My child lost her father to cancer and 2 weeks later she lost her (very loved) step-father to…"
Nov 17
sunshinesoon replied to Elizarahana's discussion Husband recently passed in the group Widowed in 2018
"Hi Elizarahana.  My husband passed September 12 from cancer as well.  I also have a 4 year old son and find taking care of him very difficult at times.  How are you doing?"
Nov 16
sunshinesoon commented on sunshinesoon's blog post Treading water
"@MidnightBear I guess what you wrote is probably true.  In this time when there is an extreme feeling of loneliness, anger and emptiness you want someone to be able to relieve or stop those feelings and it's just not possible. On a side…"
Nov 16
MidnightBear (Tony) commented on sunshinesoon's blog post Treading water
"In defense to some extent to the friends and family who don't say the right things, that is largely because there isn't a right thing to say.  While many of us here get it to some extent, we can't feel your exact grief or your…"
Nov 16
sunshinesoon commented on sunshinesoon's blog post Treading water
"@Callie2 thank you very much for the information! I’m learning how to navigate this site."
Nov 16
KayeL commented on sunshinesoon's blog post Treading water
"You're right. Friends and family don't get it.  I am close to 3 years losing my husband, and not a day I don't think of his healthy and happy self. His passing was quick. Except losing few pounds because he couldn't eat much…"
Nov 15
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for sunshinesoon
"We have a Soaring Spirits Regional Group that meets near you. Here's a link to their group Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/SoaringSpiritsRegionalGroupWPB"
Nov 15
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for sunshinesoon
"Welcome to Widville, sunshinesoon. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics.…"
Nov 15
sunshinesoon commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 70s
"Hello.... I'm new on this site but happy to have found it.  I lost my husband 2 months ago to cancer.  I have a young child who keeps me busy but its hard to find a place for my feelings while trying to keep his life as normal as…"
Nov 15
DIVA70 commented on sunshinesoon's blog post Treading water
"So sorry for your loss. Its going on seven months since my husband passed away. I don't think we are ever prepared for the end. My husband was on dialysis and had other medical problems but I still believed we had more time. Even after six…"
Nov 15
Callie2 commented on sunshinesoon's blog post Treading water
"So very sorry for your recent loss. The early months are really rough and having to comfort a young child must be even more heartbreaking. It does take time to work through grief so be patient and kind to yourself and to your son. I hope you are…"
Nov 15
sunshinesoon commented on Mrs Bear's blog post So true, found on Facebook
"So painfully true"
Nov 15
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Treading water

I am new on here, my husband passed away from cancer about two months ago.  Even though for sometime I knew he wouldn't be with me for long, I guess I always thought it would be a little bit longer.... it's still so hard to believe he's gone. No matter what, my mind constantly wanders to thoughts of him when he was healthy and happy and full of life and then to when he was sick and had deteriorated .  I'm keeping my head above water but some days just barely.  I have a four year old that I have…See More
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Treading water

Posted on November 14, 2018 at 3:35pm 8 Comments

I am new on here, my husband passed away from cancer about two months ago.  Even though for sometime I knew he wouldn't be with me for long, I guess I always thought it would be a little bit longer.... it's still so hard to believe he's gone. No matter what, my mind constantly wanders to thoughts of him when he was healthy and happy and full of life and then to when he was sick and had deteriorated .  I'm keeping my head above water but some days just barely.  I have a four year old that I…

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At 5:56pm on November 15, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

We have a Soaring Spirits Regional Group that meets near you. Here's a link to their group Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/SoaringSpiritsRegionalGroupWPB

At 5:43pm on November 15, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, sunshinesoon. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

 
 
 

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