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Posted on January 8, 2015 at 8:02pm 1 Comment

Thank you for your comments and support it really does help,had a tough couple days .water pipes froze last nite was 23 here in fla.threw myself on the kitchen floor crying for 2 hours but it wasn't really the froze pipes that was the catapult that set me off.I looked outside and saw his boat and truck realizing I would never stand there and watch him hook to his boat again.we commercial fished together for 32 years that was some of the most peaceful times we had together on the water.I…



Posted on January 4, 2015 at 8:23pm 3 Comments

Fist thank you all for your comments and advice,it helps to know this can be doable and I'm not alone in this journey.I'm able to function because I have no choice.I was granted custody of 3 grandchildren ages 2,7,9  three months before my husband passed,their mother is incarcerated for 2 years and there father is a homeless drug addict whom I tried to help until he stole his children's nextbook and cellphone .I have to get up every morning,give them breakfast get them to school,make…



Posted on January 3, 2015 at 7:39pm 3 Comments

Here it is night again and I'm going over the last days and hours of his life again.It's like I have a date with this every night.Am I setting myself up for it? Seems like my in-laws are avoiding me,maybe we all just need time to grieve on our own.It's been 2months today I read posts from people who are in this process for 2 years or more and it doesn't seem to get better.I feel guilty for eating especially if it's one of his favorite dishes.I know I have to eat so…



Posted on January 2, 2015 at 9:59pm 2 Comments

The reality that he's never coming back is setting in.I'll never ever see him again..I was less angry today but more sad.Who knows what it will be tomorrow.What will set me off?I disposed of his medications today after I thought about taking them all But just for a second I couldn't put that pain on my family.I'm not ready to pack his clothes thats too final.I couldn't bear it.So I just keep washing and wearing the same things so I don't have to go in the closet.And the things people…


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At 2:03pm on December 31, 2014, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, susanfrmfla. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

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