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New Song

Posted on January 31, 2012 at 1:27pm 9 Comments

This is a song I started last Spring. I just finished it. I hope my wife can hear it. She died from cancer in October 2011

"What I Mean When I Say Love"

Well there’s a fever breeze and it suffocates the air

Blowing in from sour seas tangling your Saturday night hair

And you don’t feel so pretty, but you still play the part

The beautiful redeemer of my sin-infested heart


You mourn the ghost of your old self, you’ve dreamed…


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At 7:05pm on October 21, 2014, smit09 said…

[email protected] 

I don't have yours

At 4:37am on March 17, 2014, smit09 said…

Hi Tim.

Thinking of you, hope all is well.

At 12:49pm on February 12, 2013, chucks(girl) said…
thank you so much... life is so meaningless for me right now i hope the days get better and i learn to live again .Hugs and peace always to you..
At 4:46pm on August 30, 2012, danir0x said…

Hey! I know I've definitely been MIA. For the most part I've been doing pretty well. Hospital rotations have me really busy, but busy is good, and learning tons & loving it. Of course I have a few rough days when I feel like grief just hits me like a ton of bricks, but I think that's to be expected..  How are you?? 

At 9:50pm on August 17, 2012, SpiritWalker said…

thank u for the friend thinks that maybe u could rele use a friend right now...pls send me a message if i can be of assistance...and in the meantime take care of does get easier on this road even if you feel like ur in the ditch right now...hugs and sweet rainbows...TTFN..

At 1:19pm on August 7, 2012, bj628(Bonnie) said…

Sorry you are annoyed, Some days can be very frustraiting...  sending wishes that you are feeing better soon.


At 10:42am on July 8, 2012, chrism said…

Hi tim and thank you for your message I am really sorry for the loss of your wife in a similar way to mine,your pics are beautiful and very emotive to me as my wife very rarely wore a wig too as true beauty always shines through which can clearly be seen in your wifes pictures.hope to speak soon,cheers Chris

At 2:09pm on June 29, 2012, Suz said…

She is gorgeous and she looks like she has such a great spirit!

At 7:22am on June 19, 2012, telechick said…


Thanks for the friend request. Sorry we have to become friends under such circumstances. Hope your day is going ok.

At 4:28pm on May 7, 2012, BrittneyR said…

Not sure if you are familiar with Vanderbilt University Medical Center, but my husband went to their cancer center for his treatments. Every year they have a fundraiser called Songs From the Heart. It consists of a 2-day workshop where cancer survivors/family/staff write a song, about their journey with cancer, with the help of singer/songwriter Tricia Walker. Then there is a concert on the last day, and Tricia or the writer will sing/play the song. You should consider submitting the song you wrote. It's very touching, and would be perfect for this. I know the coordinator, if you are interested. 


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