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Dee1960
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  • Saint Petersburg, FL
  • United States
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Chat room?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Soaring Spirits Jan 12. 1 Reply

What happened to the "temporary chat room"??? Tried to go go there and got a message saying "This group does not exist" ... what's going on? Anyone know?Continue

Chat?

Started this discussion. Last reply by laurajay Jan 9. 1 Reply

What happened to the TemporaryChat room? Just went there and said it "was no longer available" or something like that... Continue

Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dee1960 Jan 4. 27 Replies

This will be the fourth christmas without my beloved husband. Thought I was dealing with it OK, been through it three times already  -- you know, trying to do "new" things, basically trying to ignore…Continue

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Soaring Spirits replied to Dee1960's discussion Chat room?
"We are moving the Village to a new site and while doing this work the Chat Room had to be disabled.  Here's a link to the Private Chat Room Group  that is in place now:  http://widowedvillage.org/group/private-chat-room"
Jan 12
Dee1960 posted discussions
Jan 10
Dee1960 commented on CryinCali's blog post Unhappy new year
"Cali, wish I knew what to say to help you, but all I can say is I relate, my husband of 21 years was murdered, he didn't die right away, but died from his brain damage/injuries later -- two weeks after he died, our cat died. 3 months later our…"
Jan 10
Dee1960 replied to Miket's discussion Thoughts on Christmas ... in the group Widowed in 2016
"I hear you Miket, I hear the pain of others  who responded. Christmas sucked and I am glad it's over. But being a widow sucks. Every day starts out another day with him -- every road, every restaurant, every grocery store, gas station…"
Jan 10
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"don't worry, you are not alone in feeling that dying will reunite you with the love your life. I feel the same way. Not that I'm suicidal or anything, but heck if a bus ran over me tomorrow -- oh well... I know I will meet my love again.…"
Jan 4
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"So Sweet!"
Jan 4
Susan replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"Dee1960,    That is close to something my late husband, Paul did for me. One day he planted 3 rose bushes in front of our porch for me. He said that now I'll always have roses from him.  Susan from Ohio"
Jan 4
DIVA70 replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"One of the reasons I come to this site is because I can say what I actually feel and know that there are others who truly understand. I made the mistake of telling someone close to me that when I die they should rejoice and be happy because I would…"
Jan 4
Queen_beez replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"As I sit here sobbing I simply have no words. No good wards anyway. All I can say is my heart aches for you and for all of us dealing with such horrific loss. I became a widow at 53 so I understand those feelings you are having. It's so…"
Jan 3
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"save a seat"
Jan 2
Kris63 replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"Lisa- This is my second without my husband, Mark, also. I was 55 when he died; I totally relate to the shock of being widowed so early, the first year numbness and the dreaded new reality we all now face. Hugs to all."
Dec 31, 2019
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"That is lovely, and I am glad you do that --- though I don't need to go to Trader Joe's and buy roses. A long time ago, (we were married 25 years) when we were first together, we were talking about what was "romantic" and he (my…"
Dec 30, 2019
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"Lisa, I understand, I didn't decorate this year either, except to buy two pine scented candles and when I friend and I went on a "victorian Christmas stroll" at a local museum, I did buy an itty-bitty tree (about 3 inches tall) in the…"
Dec 30, 2019
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"that is beautiful. thanks"
Dec 30, 2019
NoLongerInBergenJC replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"@Dee:  I have found that the best way to get through Valentine's Day is to get myself roses.  I recommend getting them at Trader Joe's if you have one; their roses last almost two weeks.  My husband always said I should have…"
Dec 27, 2019
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"Many thanks to all who posted this thread. It's good to know I'm not alone. Though this one "group" none of us should have to join. And I feel for you, for all of your losses. You don't know how many times they have some…"
Dec 27, 2019

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At 11:07am on May 24, 2018, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, that widow in the pink house. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

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