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Dee1960
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Mediums

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dee1960 Feb 29. 18 Replies

Just wondering if anyone has gone to a medium to connect with their spouse? And if so, what was the outcome?  *good, bad, or -- ?"  I've been to a few and just want to know what others have done...…Continue

Wedding Rings -- why wear them?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dee1960 Feb 29. 29 Replies

Today I went out to lunch with a friend (not a widow) and told her all my widowed friends (that I met at Grief Groups) have taken their wedding rings off. I'm still wearing mine. Actually have mine…Continue

Chat room?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Soaring Spirits Jan 12. 1 Reply

What happened to the "temporary chat room"??? Tried to go go there and got a message saying "This group does not exist" ... what's going on? Anyone know?Continue

Chat?

Started this discussion. Last reply by laurajay Jan 9. 1 Reply

What happened to the TemporaryChat room? Just went there and said it "was no longer available" or something like that... Continue

 

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LandL (Linda) replied to Dee1960's discussion Death Anniversary
"Melissa, my heart is with you today.  You were so very kind to me a few weeks ago when I posted on the "born in the 50's" group about how much I'm missing my husband right now, even after 5 years.  I've read your…"
Thursday
Tess replied to Dee1960's discussion Death Anniversary
"Melissa, I’m thinking of you today. I still remember being so beside myself on the first deathiversary. I couldn’t get Netflix to work and my daughter couldn’t understand my infuriation with it. It was never the Netflix at all, but…"
Thursday
Melissa replied to Dee1960's discussion Death Anniversary
"Today is my first deathiversary. I'm hoping to be distracted by work for most of the day, but am also holding space for my day to go any way I need in the moment. At least since I'm working from home due to coronavirus, I know that if I…"
Thursday
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Mediums
"Lost Girl, thank you, that was beautiful! Who was the medium?"
Feb 29
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Wedding Rings -- why wear them?
"GreenSofie, that is so beautiful and the way I feel too. My husband and I had matching bands, though his was a bigger and broader than mine. He never EVER took it off, even though many medical procedures, refused to take it off and they would put…"
Feb 29
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Wedding Rings -- why wear them?
"Vintage Barb, I love your attitude!  BTW, I had trouble getting my ring off as I'd gained some weight and the jeweler sprayed Windex on it, and it slid right off... well with maybe a little tugging...  But that does weirdly…"
Feb 27
MrsHill2015 replied to Dee1960's discussion Mediums
"I've never been more interested in mediums. I never believed in that stuff. Didn't care to go. And I've lost others close to me. But with my husband, my life partner, my rock, passing, I am a changed woman. The fact that he passed so…"
Feb 26
vintage56(barb) replied to Dee1960's discussion Wedding Rings -- why wear them?
"I thought about this some more (after watching a video on how to remove stubborn rings) and decided not to try. The way I see it, if anyone is going to be attracted to me, they will get to know me first. I am not that good-looking but have a good…"
Feb 25
vintage56(barb) replied to Dee1960's discussion Mediums
"No, the one I saw said "Don't keep coming back, nothing to gain from it." I know some do though. But I think like anything else, there are real ones and fakes."
Feb 25
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Mediums
"Teresa, let us know how it goes.  Good luck. I do you make a connection."
Feb 23
TeresaNY replied to Dee1960's discussion Mediums
"My cousin is a big believer in mediums.  She has arranged for me to go see someone next weekend to hopefully connect with my husband who passed 6 months ago.  I'm honestly not sure how I feel about it.  I would like to think that…"
Feb 23
ChelaDreams replied to Dee1960's discussion Wedding Rings -- why wear them?
"I too kiss my husband's ring to feel closer to him -- not weird at all! Like you, I don't see myself ever remarrying...but it's been hard for me thinking about having a relationship of any kind. Locically, I feel too young to rule it…"
Feb 22
ChelaDreams replied to Dee1960's discussion Wedding Rings -- why wear them?
"My husband has been gone for 2 years now. I wear his ring on a necklace, and my ring when I go out which is how I've always worn it -- I don't really like wearing rings.  I actually stopped wearing it after the first year, again…"
Feb 22
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Mediums
"Been reading through all the posts, thanks all for responding! Rich, let us know how it goes! I think mediums are like any other business, i.e. you can hire a great carpenter or one that does crap work or worse scams you!   I've paid as…"
Feb 22
Rich replied to Dee1960's discussion Mediums
"Agree, this is pure entertainment on my part. "
Feb 21
Rich replied to Dee1960's discussion Mediums
"I am going just for my curiosity, not expecting anything. However many people get comfort and validation from seeing one so who knows."
Feb 21

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At 11:07am on May 24, 2018, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, that widow in the pink house. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

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