Just wondering if anyone has gone to a medium to connect with their spouse? And if so, what was the outcome? *good, bad, or -- ?" I've been to a few and just want to know what others have done...…Continue
Today I went out to lunch with a friend (not a widow) and told her all my widowed friends (that I met at Grief Groups) have taken their wedding rings off. I'm still wearing mine. Actually have mine…Continue
"Melissa, my heart is with you today. You were so very kind to me a few weeks ago when I posted on the "born in the 50's" group about how much I'm missing my husband right now, even after 5 years. I've read your…"
"Melissa, I’m thinking of you today. I still remember being so beside myself on the first deathiversary. I couldn’t get Netflix to work and my daughter couldn’t understand my infuriation with it. It was never the Netflix at all, but…"
"Today is my first deathiversary. I'm hoping to be distracted by work for most of the day, but am also holding space for my day to go any way I need in the moment. At least since I'm working from home due to coronavirus, I know that if I…"
"GreenSofie, that is so beautiful and the way I feel too. My husband and I had matching bands, though his was a bigger and broader than mine. He never EVER took it off, even though many medical procedures, refused to take it off and they would put…"
"Vintage Barb, I love your attitude! BTW, I had trouble getting my ring off as I'd gained some weight and the jeweler sprayed Windex on it, and it slid right off... well with maybe a little tugging... But that does weirdly…"
"I've never been more interested in mediums. I never believed in that stuff. Didn't care to go. And I've lost others close to me. But with my husband, my life partner, my rock, passing, I am a changed woman. The fact that he passed so…"
"I thought about this some more (after watching a video on how to remove stubborn rings) and decided not to try. The way I see it, if anyone is going to be attracted to me, they will get to know me first. I am not that good-looking but have a good…"
"My cousin is a big believer in mediums. She has arranged for me to go see someone next weekend to hopefully connect with my husband who passed 6 months ago. I'm honestly not sure how I feel about it. I would like to think that…"
"I too kiss my husband's ring to feel closer to him -- not weird at all!
Like you, I don't see myself ever remarrying...but it's been hard for me thinking about having a relationship of any kind. Locically, I feel too young to rule it…"
"My husband has been gone for 2 years now. I wear his ring on a necklace, and my ring when I go out which is how I've always worn it -- I don't really like wearing rings.
I actually stopped wearing it after the first year, again…"
"Been reading through all the posts, thanks all for responding!
Rich, let us know how it goes!
I think mediums are like any other business, i.e. you can hire a great carpenter or one that does crap work or worse scams you!
I've paid as…"
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