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Dee1960
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  • Saint Petersburg, FL
  • United States
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Dee1960 replied to Lostandlonely's discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"Linda, My four year death anniversary is coming up May 28th -- seems like yesterday, seems like a hundred years ago --  does that make sense? Still miss him every day -- think of him every day, up and down days, some days feel…"
Apr 9
Dee1960 replied to Marina's discussion Missing them... in the group Born in the 60s
"Dana775, that "brain fog" (as I call it) will decrease with time. You are still "new" to this grief.  I think I had total "brain fog" for about a year.  And still, somedays, it comes back... ie: what day of…"
Mar 31
Dee1960 replied to Marina's discussion Missing them... in the group Born in the 60s
"Hello Marina and all the others who posted. I am relatively new to this group, though my husband passed May 28, 2015.. still not "over it" but dealing with it a bit better. I also had several losses close together, my husband (of 21 years)…"
Mar 31
Dee1960 replied to sis's discussion Scam Calls From Husband
"Hi, I too, not long after my husband's death received a phone call, Caller ID, our phone number, my husband's name on it.  I picked it up said "hello?" nothing but static on the line...  I've talked to other widows…"
Feb 22
Dee1960 replied to soulmate's discussion If you could choose one song to express how you feel after the death of your spouse what would it be?
"Unchanged Melody: unchained melody youtube"
Feb 22
Dee1960 replied to Ninny's discussion Dealing with multiple losses in the group Born in the 60s
"Ninny, I am so sorry to hear about your multiple losses -- I know that my husband's death was so unexpected (he was fine on Monday, "tired" on Tuesday and dead on Wednesday when I woke up, died in his sleep) it was all so sudden that…"
Jan 27
Dee1960 replied to Ninny's discussion Dealing with multiple losses in the group Born in the 60s
"Ninny, I don't know a magic potion, I wish I did.  I do know how hard it is to have multiple losses:  my dear beloved husband of 25 years died May 28th, 2015, he was my everything, my soulmate, best friend, love of my life, -- two…"
Jan 26
Dee1960 replied to Lostandlonely's discussion Holidays
"Yes, yes, and yes. This will also be my 4th year of "holidays" without my husband, the last 3 years my "widows group" that I met through grief support group, 5 of us, we had a  little party on Christmas Eve, but this year --…"
Nov 28, 2018
Dee1960 replied to Lostandlonely's discussion Severe Anxiety
"Dear Lostandlonely:   I also have severe anxiety since my husband died in 2015.  Driving especially is a problem.  I have gotten a service dog that I can take with me which helps with the driving, also panic attacks in public, but…"
Nov 28, 2018
Dee1960 replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"What? Picked up teeth?  Not sure I even understand that...  My mother-in-law said "losing a son is worse than losing a husband".  That said, her husband was an alcoholic abusive SOB, and I thought, but didn't say,…"
Oct 6, 2018
Dee1960 replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Jeepers! I thought I heard it all.  -- can't believe it  -- but still, um , if you did kill yourself, who would pick up the kids from school? I think that would grandma's job ..... right?  Hang in there, people can be awful."
Oct 6, 2018
Dee1960 replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"first, so sorry for your loss, and second, 18 months probation is nothing compared  to what you are going through  -- f- them!"
Oct 6, 2018
Dee1960 replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"OMG, that is terrible -- you do not deserve that -- it is just just awful and a reflection on who she is (your mom) not you... "
Oct 6, 2018
Dee1960 replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Well, I've read all the replies... I lost my husband in May, our cat died two weeks later in June and our dog died in July -- and then my best friend died in Dec.  all in the same year.   Still in deep grief over the loss of my love…"
Sep 23, 2018
Dee1960 replied to shellybean's discussion Guilty about therapy
"And PS: don't feel guilty!"
Sep 23, 2018
Dee1960 replied to shellybean's discussion Guilty about therapy
"Shelly, I am new here, but been widowed three years (still seems like yesterday) -- and just saw your post and thought, well, too late to respond... but then I see it's not. I have been going grief therapy since 2016 -- first "group…"
Sep 23, 2018

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At 11:07am on May 24, 2018, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, that widow in the pink house. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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