My husband's death anniversary is coming up, May 28th. It will be four years, seems like yesterday, seems a hundred years ago -- anyone else feel the same?Found him in the morning, unresponsive in…Continue
"I have not been here in a long while as i lost my wife in 2007. Last week I was cleaning out my closet and came across an old suit and as i went though the pockets I found a letter that she wrote me twelve years ago and although it brought me to my…"
"Also, Mike just make sure this is a jeweler you know or trust -- I went to this particular jeweler as a referral from a friend who had a lot dealing with this business. And I looked at their website and looked up reviews, before I took my rings in…"
"Hey Mike, I think "solder" means "weld", and I wasn't sure of the exact term but googled the terms, and basically both mean it's putting together metal. So I guess I will have to say, I love mine, no problem and nothing…"
"KPJE, I wish I had the feeling you have, that's he's hovering here in the "in-between" --- count yourself lucky. I wish I felt the same, sometimes it just feels so empty here and I wonder where is he? A little haunting would help…"
"Kris you are not crazy, and that definitely was a sign that your husband is reaching out to you, I truly believe that spirits stay with us, around us, and can mess with electrical stuff. I'm always looking for signs too --- I know how you feel,…"
"Not that particular thing but here is my oddity. A couple of weeks ago my cell phone "dialed" my husband's cell number (which I had to finally disconnect several months after he died but can't bring myself to delete the contact…"
"Wow, Melissa, you did say it all! And good for you, get it out!
You are not nuts, just going through grief -- and it's only been six months.
Geez-us -- at six months, I could barely get out bed.... the only people who understand are…"
"Mike, I never really thought of it that way "a bond that can't be broken". Lovely way to put it. Thank you, you brought tears to my eyes. But you are so right --- which is why doing that with our wedding bands -- welding…"
"Mike, what a beautiful thing you did... I probably shouldn't even be in this group as my husband died in 2015 -- but can't help commenting when I saw the post about rings. Never heard of the "black ring" thing. Many of my widow…"
"Gosh, this post has brought tears to my eyes, but also makes me want to tell my story, which is long... so will try to make a long story short. My husband and I had two cats and a dog. Boomer, our dog was almost 16 and had many geriatric problems:…"
"I would love to have any kind of weird experience that makes it seem as though Greg is contacting me.....nothing that I can remember like that. When I just wake up though, from a nap or night's sleep, I never feel alone or lonely. …"
"I get it, it's lonely -- how long has it been since your partner passed? Mine, over 4 years ago, and still lonely. I have no magic wand to wave ... wish I did. I do have a dog and cat, so not an empty house, and that does help....of…"
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