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Dee1960
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  • Saint Petersburg, FL
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Phone Call from the Afterlife?

Started this discussion. Last reply by Brian0122 5 hours ago. 18 Replies

 Tonight the phone rang, Caller ID was my (our) phone number, my deceased husband's name. I answered it: "Hello?", heard nothing, then lots of static, then silence, I said "hello?" again, more…Continue

Death Anniversary

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dee1960 May 12. 13 Replies

My husband's death anniversary is coming up, May 28th. It will be four years, seems like yesterday, seems a hundred years  ago -- anyone else feel the same?Found him in the morning, unresponsive in…Continue

 

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Brian0122 replied to Dee1960's discussion Phone Call from the Afterlife?
"I have not been here in a long while as i lost my wife in 2007. Last week I was cleaning out my closet and came across an old suit and as i went though the pockets I found a letter that she wrote me twelve years ago and although it brought me to my…"
5 hours ago
Dee1960 replied to Miket's discussion Rings in the group Widowed in 2016
"Also, Mike just make sure this is a jeweler you know or trust -- I went to this particular jeweler as a referral from a friend who had a lot dealing with this business. And I looked at their website and looked up reviews, before I took my rings in…"
21 hours ago
Dee1960 replied to Miket's discussion Rings in the group Widowed in 2016
"Hey Mike, I think "solder" means "weld", and I wasn't sure of the exact term but googled the terms, and basically both mean it's putting together metal. So I guess I will have to say, I love mine, no problem and nothing…"
22 hours ago
Kris63 replied to Dee1960's discussion Phone Call from the Afterlife?
"Dee- Thank you for your reply.  Add me feel a little less crazy. Hugs back to you."
yesterday
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Phone Call from the Afterlife?
"KPJE, I wish I had the feeling you have, that's he's hovering here in the "in-between" --- count yourself lucky. I wish I felt the same, sometimes it just feels so empty here and I wonder where is he? A little haunting would help…"
yesterday
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Phone Call from the Afterlife?
"Kris you are not crazy, and that definitely was a sign that your husband is reaching out to you, I truly believe that spirits stay with us, around us, and can mess with electrical stuff. I'm always looking for signs too --- I know how you feel,…"
yesterday
Lablady replied to Dee1960's discussion Phone Call from the Afterlife?
"You are most welcome. <3"
yesterday
Kris63 replied to Dee1960's discussion Phone Call from the Afterlife?
"Not that particular thing but here is my oddity. A couple of weeks ago my cell phone "dialed" my husband's cell number (which I had to finally disconnect several months after he died but can't bring myself to delete the contact…"
Wednesday
Dee1960 replied to Melissa's discussion Loneliness
"Wow, Melissa, you did say it all! And good for you, get it out!  You are not nuts, just going through grief -- and it's only been six months. Geez-us -- at six months, I could barely get out bed.... the only people who understand are…"
Monday
Dee1960 replied to Miket's discussion Rings in the group Widowed in 2016
"Mike, I never really thought of it that way "a bond that can't be broken".  Lovely way to put it.  Thank you, you brought tears to my eyes. But you are so right --- which is why doing that with our wedding bands -- welding…"
Monday
Dee1960 replied to Miket's discussion Rings in the group Widowed in 2016
"Mike, what a beautiful thing you did... I probably shouldn't even be in this group as my husband died in 2015 -- but can't help commenting when I saw the post about rings. Never heard of the "black ring" thing. Many of my widow…"
Sunday
Dee1960 replied to frankenpickle's discussion Did your pets help you with your loss? Did THEY need YOUR help?
"Gosh, this post has brought tears to my eyes, but also makes me want to tell my story, which is long... so will try to make a long story short. My husband and I had two cats and a dog. Boomer, our dog was almost 16 and had many geriatric problems:…"
Sunday
Dee1960 replied to Dee1960's discussion Phone Call from the Afterlife?
"Believe! "
Sunday
Dee1960 commented on Pegasus's blog post A Sobering Thought
"Yup, hate to say, grief does make one reach for the bottle -- dull the pain. It's just normal. I did it/do it too. Take care and glad you have support."
Aug 16
KJPE replied to Dee1960's discussion Phone Call from the Afterlife?
"I would love to have any kind of weird experience that makes it seem as though Greg is contacting me.....nothing that I can remember like that.  When I just wake up though, from a nap or night's sleep, I never feel alone or lonely. …"
Aug 15
Dee1960 replied to Melissa's discussion Loneliness
"I get it, it's lonely -- how long has it been since your partner passed?  Mine, over 4 years ago, and still lonely. I have no magic wand to wave ... wish I did. I do have a dog and cat, so not an empty house, and that does help....of…"
Aug 13

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At 11:07am on May 24, 2018, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, that widow in the pink house. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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