"Thanks everyone. That was all very reassuring."
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tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I had a mini meltdown this weekend. Stayed calm on the outside because I had to, but freaked out a little on the inside. So, at the risk of TMI, here goes...
Late yesterday afternoon my daughter got her first period. Thankfully it wasn't in…"
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Mistletoe, a Christmas poem by Walter de la Mare
Sitting under the mistletoe(Pale-green, fairy mistletoe),One last candle burning low,All the sleepy dancers gone,Just one candle burning on,Shadows lurking everywhere:Some one came, and kissed me…"
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Hope everyone had a nice Thanksgiving."
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Today my wife was supposed to be 45. Death sucks, but here I am soldiering on. Hopefully next year I will either implode our bathrooms or redo the siding & windows."
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Mariposa - It's the ups and downs and all those things are triggers. My daughter just started middle school. I'm facing buying her new clothes for the first time (I still haven't and need to soon). Thankfully we understand, and…"
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I'm with you Brian. Tons of helpful family & friends who realize they can only understand to a point.
Suzi I'm glad you found this place. It's very helpful. Between this & Camp I've come a long way."
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Welcome, Rebecca. I'm glad you found this group. There are some amazing people here."
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Is anyone who went to camp having a bit of a post-camp letdown? I left camp fairly optimistic, yet spent a good chunk of yesterday in & out of bed. Finally got up & dressed around 4 after I got mad at myself for laying in bed too much &…"
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"That rock is really cool. What a nice story. Thanks for sharing!"
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Recommended: Broccoli, hard boiled eggs, canadian bacon, South Beach or Atkins or Special K diet bars, and peanuts. I've lost weight."
tomdar2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I guess I'm the exception to the rule. I took mine off right before the funeral. Our rings were part of the display."
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- At 11:04pm on June 25, 2012,
gcortez55 said… Happy Birthday!!!
- At 11:12pm on January 24, 2012,
maddogdolly said… Thank you for your 1/19 comment tomdar2. I think maybe finding some local support folks would be a good thing. I will try meetup.com as you suggest. Thanks again!
- At 1:19pm on December 8, 2011,
Iris said… - Love that Disney quote! Thanks for sharing
- At 11:47pm on November 12, 2011,
Dianne in Nevada said… Hi Tom. I'm not a member of the Widowed in 2011 group so I can't respond to you there. Just wanted to be sure you know that the first EAST COAST Camp Widow will take place April 20-22, 2012 in Myrtle Beach, SC. So if you didn't want to wait for the San Diego camp in August, you might want to attend the one in April.
- At 10:17pm on September 9, 2011,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… - CONNECTED, Twitter dude....X
- At 4:27pm on August 25, 2011,
Marsha said… - Sorry you had to join the club no one wants to be a part of. Glad you came to WV. It has been a tremendous help to me on this jouney and I hope it helps you too.
- At 7:57pm on August 21, 2011,
carolynne said… - So sorry for the loss that brinds you here, but I am glad you found WV. I've found tremendous support and understanding here, and I hope that you will too.
- At 2:13pm on August 21, 2011,
Jackie (lvgma) said… So sorry for the reason you are here, but we are all here for the same reason..Join groups chat whatever, there is lots of support here at widowed village
- At 12:09pm on August 20, 2011,
Alive & Mortal said… - Let me come in where you are weeping, friend,
And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours,
Can understand.
- At 1:14am on August 20, 2011,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
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