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suffering a loss for the second time
Started this discussion. Last reply by Ellen Mar 14. 11 Replies 0 Likes
I lost my first hubby 12 yrs ago to a motorcycle accident,3 weeks ago lost my fiance at 49 yrs old unexpectedly....going through this once was extremely difficult.I didnt think i would be going…Continue
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widowedx2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"The numness for me, lasted for months, but it little by little wears off.the pain never goes away,just in time easier to deal with.I was already widowed once in 2000 and then again in September tow days after my sons birthday.I have to be what they…"
widowedx2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"i too went and had to see my finace in the mortuary.he still had the tube in his mouth but other than that he just looed asleep. his coloring was still the same which i guess was easier on me than to see a diffrent image that will forever be…"
LaurieR left a comment for widowedx2
"Hi. I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to Widowed in 2012. If you have any question, send me an e-mail, I will help you if I can. I will send you a friend request, if you wish you can accept it."
widowedx2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group More than one loss (Multiple losses)
"I am grateful for this site , i dont feel so alone,yet saddend that so many of us are out there.Together we will get through what ever we are dealt with.Just remember there are others that "get it" and are always willing to listen.Thank…"
widowedx2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"i agree with kiki8 mixed feelings as well. Part of me wants this year to be over i lost my fiance 2 days after my sons 17th birthday.i have to be strong because i know thats what he would tell me to do.I try and change the way i look at life because…"
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Suddenly widowed
For those widowed suddenly or unexpectedly by any cause. The complementary group is "Long term illness." Yes, you may join both.We now have a "Suddenly widowed" discussion in the PERENNIAL main forum. Q's? Widville@gmail.comSee More
widowedx2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"I agree Profe, glad yesterday is over,even though i enjoyed seeing my boys open thier gifts.yet a void in my heart, that will never be filled. Silly as it sounds I texted his cell phone and cried the entire time i was texting!things i wanted to say…"
sisterphoenix (stacey) replied to widowedx2's discussion suffering a loss for the second time
"x2, Thank you for sharing, both here and on the other message board.
*hugs* I happen to be a young widow (now two times) at the age of 38. Unfortunately, I had a sister and a friend make this journey before me, then…"
widowedx2 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group More than one loss (Multiple losses)
"Hi sisterphoenix, Im so sorry for your losses.i too recently lost my fiance (end of september)and have already experienced losing my husand to a motorcyle accident 12 yrs ago.I said id never find love again,but when i wasnt looking,
he was there and…"
bj628(Bonnie) replied to widowedx2's discussion suffering a loss for the second time
"You are not alone.. I am also a widow x2. I lost my 6 yr old son to neuroblastoma in 1972, My father & husband died 5 months apart in 1979. my mom in 1984 My very best friend in 2005 and my husband of 20 years June of 2011.
Each loss…"
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- At 7:16pm on January 3, 2013,
LaurieR said… Hi. I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to Widowed in 2012. If you have any question, send me an e-mail, I will help you if I can. I will send you a friend request, if you wish you can accept it.
- At 11:38pm on October 22, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome widowedx2: I'm sorry for your losses but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 4:20pm on October 22, 2012,
wannabmartha said… So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.
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