"I HAVE YET BEEN ABLE TO CRY...DUE TO FAMILY THAT STOLE ...MY MEMORIES AND HIS LOVE AND MORE...I AM A HOLLOW SHELL...THAT SITS IN CHAIR IN A WORLD THAT IS ALIEN TO ME...I FEEL NOTHING YET HEAVY SADDNESS SITS BESIDE ME...2 YEARS OF NO…"
"I HAD MY ATTORNEY AND PARALEGL TELL ME TO GO DO SOMETHING FOR MYSELF THAT WAS FUN...."GO GET LAID" THEY SAID....MIND YOU THIS IS ONLY 3 MONTHS AFTER MY HUSBAND WAS TRAGICALLY...KILLED....I SAID TO MYSELF THEY HAVE NOT A CLUE ...AND…"
"if THEY MAKE CASTS FOR BROKENHEARTS ....ORDER ME ONE....NO ORDER A MILLION BOXES!!! ONE FOR ALL THE WIDOWS....SEND INSTRUCTIONS TOO!!! WE ALL WISH IT WAS THAT SIMPLE ...
HAVE YOU BEEN TOLD SAYINGS LIKE:
DEATH IS PART OF…"
"HELLO....We have similar stories...I live in Texas...and in Texas we have common law marriages. So I am His Wife.
My beautiful Husband was killed on an oil rig. His brother was his boss that night... unusual. His son is a Jehovah Witness hardly knew…"
"Same here he left for work while I was at the realtors office ...I was too excited about a new home that I did not see him off to work..he called later but I can't really remember what he said...or how i sounded when I said I love you ...I…"
"Barb...I understand about not wanting to talk to anyone else but our other half...We Miss them... We Miss us...The PAIN those words cause...Who knows us like they do...Our good side or our bad side etc...They say that crying helps…"
Hi Widowsveilo9 Thank you for inviting me to be your friend. You and your husband looked so happy and I feel your pain. I can barely look at pictures of my husband let alone post them. But it is helpful to see yours. I hope that we can help each other as we stumble through this agonizing process called grief. How has your day been?Please tell me about yourself and your husband.
My husband was killed 2 years ago. I feel him around me, it seems like he was here yesterday, but it also seems like it was a lifetime ago. I realize this is the 3rd year for my 13 year old son playing baseball without his dad as the coach, it seems unreal. I have heard the same sort of comments from people (some who didn't even know him). No-one knows who shot him and no-one knows why. He didn't deserve to die, he was a good man, a great husband and a fantastic part of our community.
Welcome to Widowed Village. You’ve come to a wonderful place filled with those who "get it". Joining groups is a great way to get connected to others who have similar experiences. Jump into some of the forum discussions, request some friends, try out the chat room, just immerse yourself in this very special place. I look forward to getting acquainted with you here in Widville.