Coming up on 8 months since my wife passed (16th). I guess I am adjusting somewhat. We have to, we can't live in the same spot emotionally. Life has to go on even as difficult as it can be sometimes.
I am trying to rebuild my business and that keeps me busy, when I can stay focused. Priorities changed after Linda became sick 4 years ago and I lost a lot of clients. I have no regrets of that. I wanted to spend every possible moment I could with her. We knew from the start there…Continue
I am getting to the stage now when I remember not the rough and tumble of life of how my marriage really was but more the images of perfection. I think this is a dangerous time as it idealizes the person we have lost and makes it impossible to find another partner. And I do want at least a chance of having another partner. I know now I can't find a partner that was all the things Ray WAS. I mean the…Continue
I joined here a couple days ago and have been looking around trying to get a feel for the site.
My wife passed away in June of 2015 after 3 1/2 years of batting cancer. The first 5 months I was just kind of numb.
When December came the weight of losing her really came down on me. Maybe it was the 6 month thing or into the holidays, or both.
I have done some writing of poems and messages and that helped some. I joined a couple groups on FB and that was helpful for…Continue
I have always thought I was one of the luckiest girls on the planet: Never a day in my life that I have had worries. My parents and grandparents spoiled me, I did great in school, I have awesome friends. I found my soulmate in college at age 21 and we stayed in love, together almost every day, for 15 years. We started a family of three two years ago. Husband loved me, he was great with our son, our son adored his dad. We had a humble life that was good enough to allow me to stay home to rear…Continue
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