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June 2013 Blog Posts (51)

kNow

''As I watched DJ slip away, I could realize what was ending,

but what I didn’t know, couldn’t know, was what was really just beginning…

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Added by hendrixx2 on June 30, 2013 at 6:30pm — 4 Comments

The Truth

My mom said that when you are dead, you are dead until Christ comes and gets you. I wanted to think that 

George was in a better place, looking down on us. Yesterday, I moved her ashes from the livingroom to our 

bedroom where I have been spending most of my free time lately. When I picked her up and held her next to 

my heart, it was like I could feel her essence radiating from inside that little black box. Now I believe that mom is

right, and George is…

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Added by MajorPain on June 29, 2013 at 5:23am — 2 Comments

Don't compare your living boyfriend to your dead husband

Have you thought about being in a relationship again?

It's extremely complicated yet totally satisfying at the same time...however...

Tonight I picked a fight with my boyfriend.  It wasn't a big fight, or anything serious, which makes me…

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Added by smit09 on June 27, 2013 at 6:30pm — 11 Comments

Wanting answers to why

Tonight I just can't take it anymore. Tears have been falling on and off for days, even though it's been four months. I thought I was getting better. That was a lie. I'm crying hysterically, I feel like I can't breathe, I feel sick to my stomach like I'm going to throw up and I don't know what to do. I keep saying to myself...I can't do this anymore. I can't keep going on like this without him. I've Become a terrible mother, I'm always mad at my kids and I'm miserable. I am a bad daughter, I… Continue

Added by TamilovesTim on June 26, 2013 at 9:34pm — 7 Comments

I'm not Broken... One Year Later...

I get it now.  I get why people keep telling me how strong I am.  I get why people have expressed admiration for my will to keep moving forward.

I get it.

I'm not broken.

Today is a beautiful day.

Today I honour a man who gave so much, who love so deeply, and who is now at peace.

Today I honour a man who introduced me to more family, who gave me two amazing young men and who gave my older kids an amazing example of what a husband and father should…

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Added by momtofourkids (Jane) on June 26, 2013 at 8:58am — 5 Comments

Take Up Your Cross

“If anyone wishes to come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it.” Luke 9:23-24

 

This is a very tall order. In fact…

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Added by Singledadof9 on June 25, 2013 at 1:24pm — 7 Comments

Are you alone?

People that end up on Widowed Village (WV) are usually alone and devastated by the death of their spouse or loved one.  Many have lost parents and/or other close relatives prior to this, but until they actually lose their spouse or loved one, they do not know the pain that we on WV feel.  They cannot know it like we do, because the feeling doesn't exist until after it happens and only then can it be felt and understood.     

Once we get to WV, then we can begin the first steps in the…

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Added by Moving On on June 25, 2013 at 11:53am — 18 Comments

Now what do I do??

I just came through first wedding anniversary, anniversary of moving into our home and his birthday without being too emotionally exhusted.

My uncle had passed away and his funeral was this past friday. My sister and brother did go and stopped off to see an aunt from my dads side of the family. Apparently my cousin passed away 11 days before my husband did. My aunt naturally called her brother, my dad, and told him along with his nephew and sister in law. At this time he was not…

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Added by amatxlatina on June 25, 2013 at 8:28am — 1 Comment

Still Standing...

Picture (Photo by Microsoft.com)

Well, it's been 16 months since my husband passed away. I'm now employed (after becoming unemployed for a year - one week before he passed). I'm doing well but there are times when I still have my moments. And when I do, it's tough. I've delved into the…
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Added by Sabra on June 24, 2013 at 12:10pm — 1 Comment

some changes ahead

What can I tell you?  Life continues, nothing much changes, I go on from day to day wondering if I am making the right moves, just keeping afloat but hopefully using my time well.  At least I feel in clean-up mood so have made the first moves to pile up what I don't want and in Spring will decide what I do want and maybe start to get rid of the rubbish.  In the heart of winter is not the time to do that.

The wet, cold days are continuing, we just had another three day rain event with…

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Added by only1sue on June 23, 2013 at 6:00pm — 2 Comments

first sermon for new congregation

Well, I don’t know you and you don’t know me. But, we’ll find out in due time who’s who and who’s not. For me, an extrovert, getting acquainted is fun. I’ve never met a stranger although I have met some very strange folks. I don’t think you will find me odd, I’m pretty much like you. I grew up in the south. My folks are gone now but they raised four of us. I’m the only daughter and I have three brothers. We were pretty normal. My daddy was a deputy sheriff and my mother was a…

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Added by Sharon on June 22, 2013 at 6:50pm — 5 Comments

Daily Inspirationals

Hi everyone,

I thought I would let everyone know that is interested, that I've started writing a daily inspirational, which I put on my page in my online store.  The page is called "Daily Stanism"  and can be found at the following link: 

http://www.bestassistedlivingaids.com/daily_stanism.htm

Here's a copy of Thursday's and today's Stanism so you'll get an idea of what they are:…

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Added by Moving On on June 21, 2013 at 7:00am — 2 Comments

Forgiven

Happy Father's Day everyone! I hope you were able to enjoy the day with your families.

The Mass readings for Father's Day were perfect. In the first reading, David gets a message from God through the prophet Nathan for taking Bathsheba as his own and then killing her husband Uriah the Hittite. What does he get? Forgiven. In Luke's gospel, Jesus is having dinner with a Pharisee when a sinful woman comes in, interrupts the party, anoints Jesus, kisses his feet, cries and dry's his feet…

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Added by Singledadof9 on June 17, 2013 at 7:28pm — 4 Comments

Meat Sauce

Sausage Hot or Sweet

Spare Ribs (with bone)

Beef (Thick piece)

28 Oz can Plum Tomato (put in blender to strain)

8 oz can Tomato Paste

garlic and onion

Brown meat in olive oil. When meat is brown, put a little onion and clove of garlic and brown them

Add paste and a can of water for each can of paste

Let paste cook for a few minutes

Add strained plum tomatoes 

Salt and pepper

A pinch of sugar 

Let the sauce…

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Added by Angela on June 17, 2013 at 4:30am — 5 Comments

Where is Superwoman?

It's been one year and 15 days since Wayne's body stopped.  Just stopped. His body was alive one minute, and not the next.  May 20th, 2012.  A week before this was Mother's day, May 13th.  The day before that was Saturday. And the hospice team came to meet Wayne, me and our two daughters.  They, by some miracle were both home. They were with their Dad his last day home, ever. 

  Saturday evening Wayne started failing.  He was anxious. He was uncomfortable. He was in pain. He'd…

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Added by Patience (Diane) on June 15, 2013 at 12:30pm — 20 Comments

Going into hiding

Photo courtesy of Stuart Miles at freedigitalphotos.net

Photo courtesy of Stuart Miles at freedigitalphotos.net

I swear, I’m not fit for human interaction right now.

It’s been slowly building all week. Things are sneaking up on me. I lack focus. I’m…

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Added by Tomsgirl on June 14, 2013 at 10:07pm — 6 Comments

The Widowhood Tree of Tangled Roots: Dating Ready

Picture It’s so wonderful to know that God loves us despite of our mishaps, bad decisions and disobedience especially when we delve into the love, grace and mercy that he bestows upon us even when we don’t deserve it. Widowhood is still yet growing on me. I have yet to capture all of its tangled roots that are planted in this seemingly good soil. Let me explain.…



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Added by Sabra on June 14, 2013 at 1:55pm — 8 Comments

Dreary drama of the Courthouse Saga

JUNE 12 2013 @ 10 am

sentencing date of the drunk driver who killed my husband,Craig

 

As I walk up to the courthouse, I can barely move forward as knots, tangled and massive knots tied into bigger knots fill my stomach---feeling extremely nausious and it's almost debilitating.  Now I start to notice the irritating vibrations from the neurons in my brain pulse throughout my entire body, I have to sit down, drink some…

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Added by smit09 on June 14, 2013 at 7:00am — 9 Comments

One Year Ago Today - Cindy Left This Earth

About an hour from now she would speak her last words to me. 

"I always loved you"

So as I sit here this morning, drinking my coffee...

Tears

Love

Beauty

Memories

Stories

Devotion

Gratitude

She blessed so many lives.

Added by Mac on June 14, 2013 at 5:18am — 19 Comments

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