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Writing Heals

 

I explore grief in writing as a way of healing. Some days, I give writing prompts you might want to try yourself. Other days, I just write. Either way, solid research shows that writing about your deepest, most important feelings can help you feel better. And hey, what's deeper than losing a spouse. Not too much!

If you enjoy my blog, I'd love to hear from you.

If you have ideas for good writing prompts to encourage others to write about their loss, please send them…

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Added by Jill on February 28, 2011 at 5:05pm — No Comments

My Blog Address

http://amyelomawidowsjourney.blogspot.com/

Added by Dianne in Nevada on February 6, 2011 at 11:40am — No Comments

How a broken truck explained the permanency of death to a child.

This morning, on the way to school, Hannah and I were passing the spot where my truck broke down the other day.  She told me that we'll be fine today because the truck is all new, and I said yes, the truck doctor fixed it (that's what she calls my mechanic).  She agrees with me, reminding me that we went and picked it up and brought it home.  (Even though we only went and paid and got the keys, she insisted on being driven home in the minivan and I had to go back and get the…

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Added by A Widowed Father on January 31, 2011 at 6:35am — 3 Comments

So Sad

Just when I thought it was safe, when I stopped waiting for more bad news, when I realized that impending doom feeling was being created by me................ I came home from work Friday night and as always looked for my cat.  Pepper is 17 years old and has been by my side since John passed away.  I don't think she has been very happy that I have been going out to work.

I found her and noticed that she seemed very lethargic.  She isn't eating and will only take a little bit of…

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Added by Patricia on January 30, 2011 at 7:00pm — 10 Comments

Link to my blog - Boo's journey through widowhood

Boo's Blog

Added by Boo on January 22, 2011 at 10:03am — 1 Comment

Does the journey begin here?

I was going to share this on my current, personal blog, however, I thought I would start here. Amongst friends who may share an understanding. Please note that I use foul language and I will be talking about the spiritual - not the religious. I also want to make a note that I am completely and utterly grateful that it has been possible for me to travel this week and to do this for myself.

 

It has been 1 year and almost 4 months since my husband died, tragically and suddenly. A…

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Added by Vertical on January 16, 2011 at 9:41pm — 2 Comments

THE 31 DAY TLC PLEDGE



Welcome!



For the next 31 days myself and a lovely group of bereaved people… Continue

Added by Alive & Mortal on January 13, 2011 at 6:30pm — No Comments


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A real "widow" card for you to use (Widowers too!) -- Supa's first post

Friends, I posted this on my blog, Fresh Widow, in January of 2009. I think you might appreciate it so I'm reposting.

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One night in my support group, S. said casually that he’d “left work early… I just pulled a widower card.” I thought about how often I’d done this in the months since LH died, but more about how I could make good use of some little advantage. All the handicaps I was living with… single…

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Added by Soaring Spirits on January 1, 2011 at 5:30am — 1 Comment


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Veterans



How does Mr. Fresh feel about you calling yourself a widow? Other people ask me all the time, so one day I asked him: do you mind that I continue to do widow community activities and occasionally (when it’s appropriate) I still call myself a widow in… Continue

Added by Soaring Spirits on November 17, 2010 at 2:00pm — 5 Comments


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What is a "remarried widow?"





A remarried widow shouldn’t exist. People ask her, “how can you call yourself a widow if you’re also married?” She’s milking the label. They don’t know what it was like to be married, widowed, and single all at the same time, 3 labels she never chose to wear together. She’s already cheated on a dead man.… Continue

Added by Soaring Spirits on July 5, 2010 at 2:00pm — No Comments

Just after a year: May 29, 2009

Here's another old blog of mine.  It was when I was contemplating dating again and all the trouble I was having dealing with people.

 

Hard to breathe.  Burning in my throat and chest.  Queasy stomach. Throbbing headache.  The depression is back.  My shattered heart strains to keep together with every beat.  There are tears screaming and burning behind my eyelids, aching to be released.  Why am I here again?  Oh, that’s right, I thought I saw a light at the end of the tunnel. …

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Added by Shannon on May 27, 2009 at 10:00am — No Comments

One year anniversary: May 6, 2009

One year…

It’s impossible to believe that, isn’t it?  Actually, there are days that feel like he’s been gone for more like a century, as if the part of my life with him was a dream, not a reality.  But, scattered remnants of our life together are reminders that he wasn’t just a dream.  Look how much has changed in this short amount of time.  Our baby boy is not so little anymore.  He’ll be two in a few short months.  He’s a growing toddler who is way too smart for his own good.  He’s…

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Added by Shannon on May 25, 2009 at 10:00am — No Comments

May 6, 2008: How the day unfolded

This blog is long and I wrote it shortly after the accident that took my husband's life.  It was therapuedic for me to release it on "paper". 

 

It was a sunny, beautiful Tuesday.  I didn’t take a lunch that day because Lucas was scheduled for his 9 month old check-up at 4 that afternoon.  I called Tim to make sure he was awake.  It was to be his 2nd day on 2nd shift, and I missed him.  Lucas and I had actually been staying with my mom for a few days at…

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Added by Shannon on May 25, 2008 at 10:00am — 1 Comment

Have You Fed Your Soul Lately? Check Out Soul Comfort eCourse at Brave Girls Club!!

                                     

I just had to share this invitation with some truly worthy souls! It is so important to self-nurture, and this eCourse is a beautiful way to give that gift to yourself! Please read on for details.

To the tired, the exhausted, the overstretched…here’s an invitation…

What if there really was a way to quiet the chatter in our minds and let us recharge our body & soul?

And what if it was…

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Added by Elizabeth on November 30, 1999 at 8:00am — No Comments

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