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Howie gates's Blog (5)


the day seems good until i wake up the world doesnt seem to welcome me,the morning comes and nothing seems good since you went away,till my eyes shut for the next day to come,i fel death would be a safer and more peacefulplace to go,but the moment my eyes close dreams come and take me away the dreams of you , peace and happy felings we once shared, the warm body and the love we shared,It may only last a few minutes but it gives me strength  for the next day to come,             no matter…


Added by Howie gates on February 26, 2015 at 2:36pm — 1 Comment


we were talking in the main chat room on wv someone was talking about house cleaning,so i had a funny but true story to share, one day my wife asked me to help dust the house ,so me like the ass that i am i go to the tool she crank up the leaf blower go in the house and start dusting , she laughed , but she never asked again for help dusting .

Added by Howie gates on February 25, 2015 at 3:33pm — No Comments

one day

if i could have just one more day and wishes did come true , i spend every moment side  by side  with you,,all the tears i shed thinking  of the years we shared and all  memories we made how greatful i would be to have just one more day,  all the thing i would let you know about all of the days we missed together i would have to pretend  you never went away, when that day ends and the sun sets i will let you know i will never forget you , the heart of gold you had when you entered heven will…


Added by Howie gates on February 24, 2015 at 7:23pm — 1 Comment

something to think about

when we take our vows and say ,until death do we part,we are lying to ourselves , death only brings a physical departure , a marrage  and the bond between a husband and a wife makes two people  into one, that means that even when we lose spouse ,we are still left with that special love that burns inside and never dies.that internal love burns on even if our spouse is no longer with us, clinging to that love inside of us even if it can never be physically expressed should carry us and…


Added by Howie gates on February 23, 2015 at 3:42pm — 5 Comments

love you

  to my beloved , when will these clouds all disapear where will it lead us from here.  your beautiful it aint time we said good bye i still love you. all the dreams we held so close seem to all go up in smoke where will it lead me from here, all your kisses still taste so sweet i hate the sadness it aint time said good bye, with all the loving in my soul , i still love you every  where i look i see your eyes , there aint a woman that comes close to you, we can never say we didnt try love…


Added by Howie gates on February 19, 2015 at 11:21am — No Comments

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