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Paula's Blog – December 2013 Archive (2)

When reality hits you with a 2 by 4

I know that I am a widow. I know my husband is dead, dead now for coming up to four years in March. I miss him in more ways than there are numbers and ways to measure how to miss him.  I know that I was lucky to have him and the love we shared. I know that I now have a pretty nice relationship going with a man.  Not the same mind you, but pretty satisfying just the same. But, I know that last night when I got in from my enduring flight from Gunnison CO, to Denver, to Cleveland to…


Added by Paula on December 17, 2013 at 12:42pm — 6 Comments

This time four years ago...

On the outside it does not look that different. My husband traveled for work and he was not around during the week anyway. I was also being what they so politically call being "managed out" at my job, which just means they can't lay me off because then they cannot replace me, with cheaper model so instead they would review my work every day and find something wrong to they could eventually fire a person who always had outstanding reviews for "poor performance". I hated my job anyway. I live…


Added by Paula on December 2, 2013 at 6:34am — 4 Comments

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