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Morgana (Janet)'s Blog – October 2012 Archive (3)

A Year Ago Today

One year ago today, October 17, 2011, I set out on a return trip to join Jim in Corozal Town, Belize C.A.  Unbeknown to both of us when he picked me up that night at 9:30PM at the Mexico/Belize border that what we had thought was a new journey in our life was in fact the ending of one journey and another one to start in just two weeks and one day.  The first thing we each said to each other was “I love you and I am not ever going to do this again.”  We promised each other that we would no be…


Added by Morgana (Janet) on October 17, 2012 at 6:21am — 19 Comments

Grandy's Recipe for Tear Soup

Helpful ingredients to consider:

  • A pot full fo tears
  • One heart willing to be broken open
  • a dash of bitters
  • a bunch of good friends
  • many handfuls of comfort food
  • a lot of patience
  • buckets of water to replace the tears
  • plenty of exercise
  • a variety of helpful reading material
  • enouogh self care
  • season with memoires
  • optional:  one good therapist and/or support…

Added by Morgana (Janet) on October 15, 2012 at 7:21pm — 8 Comments


“It never dawned on me that if I had a choice I never would have let him go.  So God decides when it’s time for our souls to move forward, when it is time to leave this life.  None of us would simply relinquish our loved ones or ourselves for that matter:  “Okay, God take ‘em away! Good-bye!”  No I don’t see that happening.”  Excerpt from the book “Don’t Kiss Them Good-Bye” by Allison Dubois


She was talking about her father and the anger she was feeling at the funeral and…


Added by Morgana (Janet) on October 14, 2012 at 11:19am — 6 Comments

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