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Sugr-plum (shelly)'s Blog (3)

3 month mark...

I made it... don't know how... and can't remember doing anything remarkable in the past 3 months, but I made it.  (actually 3 months and 1 week) I"m still not sleeping... putting on the weight I lost (ugh) and have cried more times in a day then not... but I made it...correction... we made it.  Need to give credit to our son... he's doing amazing.  He's filling in your shoes the best he can, while still remaining a typical teenage boy.  The other day, you would have been so proud of him...…


Added by sugr-plum (shelly) on July 6, 2014 at 4:08am — 6 Comments

So Very Tired

I"m at 11 weeks, and I'm so tired.  I'm tired of the emptiness, the silence, the pain, the every. single. day. of. living.  I push through, but only because I have a 15 yr old.  But I"m tired.  Today, as I was driving down the freeway, I felt so overwhelmingly exhausted.  The meds I finally gave into taking aren't working so much anymore... and I can't tell the doctor I put on my "mask" for her and for everyone for that matter... I"m just ... done.  11 weeks along, and I'm done.  I have no…


Added by sugr-plum (shelly) on June 17, 2014 at 11:08pm — 4 Comments

The night we met...

The night we met was a town celebration... it was July 3rd and your little town was known for its 4th of July fun.  A couple of friends and I loaded up in my 68 mustang and decided to make a day of it... we had just graduated from high school a month earlier... we were young and had the whole world ahead of us! The first time I saw you, just saw you...we all stopped without saying a word and looked back... when I asked who you were, they couldn't believe we hadn't met.  You were on the…


Added by sugr-plum (shelly) on June 5, 2014 at 2:33am — 1 Comment

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