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Only1sue's Blog – February 2016 Archive (2)

Struggling with the transition

Tonight I went to a dinner for an organisation I have belonged to for many years.  I usually sit among the couples but tonight for some reason was surrounded by women.  One of them asked me loudly if I had found myself a man yet, when I said "No" she said: "I thought this year would be good for you because it is Leap Year."  I don't think she meant to be unkind but she certainly was playing it for laughs.  I have known her for many years and wondered if she knew she was being hurtful.  I am…


Added by only1sue on February 25, 2016 at 4:22am — 4 Comments

Losing myself in a time warp

 I am getting to the stage now when I remember not the rough and tumble of life of how my marriage really was but more the images of perfection. I think this is a dangerous time as it idealizes the person we have lost and makes it impossible to find another partner.  And I do want at least a chance of having another partner.  I know now I can't find a partner that was all the things Ray WAS.  I mean the…


Added by only1sue on February 5, 2016 at 6:30pm — 3 Comments

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