is there anyone who has recently lost there spouse?

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Comment by deneice on July 28, 2012 at 3:03am

I am sorry that I had to meet all of you here. we are now facing our worst fears and some for a second time in witch i can't even begin to grasp how????? i had 7 funnerals in the last month or so before my husband passed, he was the 8th funeral. I dont know where to begin? does any one have any suggustions.

Comment by Pat222 on July 6, 2012 at 12:14am

I just lost my husband June 5th, one month ago today. He also had a massive heart attack. This is my second time being widowed, and I know that it was my young children that kept me alive the first time. This time, I am holding on to the fact that I survived the first time and actually found love a second time. Time will help, and talking here will too!

Comment by joshaleb on June 28, 2012 at 11:43pm

I just lost my husband 2 months ago in April. Absolutely devastated - we still don't know why... his autopsy hasn't come back.  I have two little boys... ages 7 & 9...I have to try very hard to find motivation to live each day.  I know my beloved is in heaven and I so long to be there with him -- and with my kids too - so we can be that happy family of 4 again...

Comment by Ccdague on June 28, 2012 at 5:48am

Deneice...welcome to our sad group. You will find hope and support. I also lost my husband recently....March 22. I also did not get to see him as he was dying as I was in San Antonio for work....and although he had been battling melanoma....his actual passing was unexpected and relatively quick....under 24 hours. I raced madly to get to his side.......but didn't make it. You are very raw and vulnerable right now....be kind to yourself and come here often. There is much love on this site.
Carol

Comment by Dianne in Nevada on June 26, 2012 at 10:55pm

Yes, Deneice, there are others here with very recently losses. Join the Widowed in 2012 group and you'll find them.