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Well this is the last day of the year - 2017.  What a year it has been.  I feel like everything is crashing down and in on me.  We all know the first thing that crashed down, in or whatever we call it:  Loosing my husband to Stage IV kidney cancer on May 2, 2017.  Ending the year with a heck of bang.  Was told I didn't need to move out of this house only to come home on December 29 from counseling and my husband's birthday that I have to move.  Rentals in this area are about 10 to 1.  Go back to work after the holiday and find out there is a huge issue not my fault but a huge mistake that touches my moral being.  God please help me go into the new year with some positive outcomes.

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Comment by InsideLove on January 26, 2018 at 8:08am

adoption1964 this must be one of the saddest actions we have to consider. I am so sorry for the feelings that have to be flooding you at this time. /||\ Prayers and hugs for you in our search. I'm not near even thinking about this.

I love how you have somehow managed the strength to put the possibility of something good there may be in it - lots of repairs needed. But oh dear God, leaving the memories. The truth is, we can carry the memories in our hearts, in our minds. Maybe there is truth to believing that God will do as well in our future as He has done in the past. I pray that for YOU.

Comment by adoption1964 (Kim) on January 26, 2018 at 7:42am

Well January is almost over and finished my tax stuff for work.  Now on to search for a new place to live.  This is going to be strange everything in this house has my husbands touch.  Now I am moving and leaving and will be putting a new touch into the new place mixed emotions.  This place I am in is in need a a lot of repairs so maybe it is good.  Leaving his loving touch behind is hard.  

Comment by Rainy (Misty) on January 10, 2018 at 3:47am

Hi adoption, I was just checking in.  I hope you've gotten some brighter news by now.  I know what it's like to have the domino effect going on.  Hang in there.

Comment by Callie2 on January 2, 2018 at 4:04pm

Sorry to hear about all that. Hoping your luck changes and things go a bit smoother for you. Sending you a warm hug.....

Comment by InsideLove on January 1, 2018 at 7:20am

/||\ prayers on the way for you adoption1964. If it helps at all, Isaiah 26:3 "You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!"

My mantra for 2018 can be just one word, and for me it's TRUST. What else are we to do?

Comment by Dianne in Nevada on December 31, 2017 at 11:07am

I'm so sorry you've been hit so hard with big things this week. I'll be in the Chat Room tonight from 11pm Eastern time to 12:30am Pacific time. Stop by to share with others and get support as we bring in the new year together.

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