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I'm such a visual person, I began thinking about what it looks like to continue to grow as a person through grief while posting to "There's a Hole" ---my thoughts wandered to the trees I've seen high up in the mountains standing tall and strong all the while rooted in rock.  I visualized what the little seed must have gone through while it continued to thrive.  I choose to believe those types of illustrations are God's way of showing us we can both survive and thrive under duress. When I made the choice to survive my grief I also made the choice to thrive despite it.  If this little poppy can be so pretty growing from concrete why can't life be beautiful through the hardships?  

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Comment by Don on June 28, 2020 at 7:03am

I always told you that you got this

Comment by ScarletPlumes on June 14, 2020 at 12:41pm

This is such a beautiful example of beauty in hardship. It reminded me of what someone once told me. Without an immense amount of pressure, a diamond will remain just a rock. Hopefully something good is going to come out of all of this pain. 

Comment by Rainy (Misty) on June 12, 2020 at 8:13am

Yes, that's perfect Estragon.   2 yrs ago I wouldn't have thought I'd have even made it to the mindset I'm at now.  Growing through this season of grief has made me a very different person.  I'd like to think I changed for the better because of it. 

Comment by Estragon on June 9, 2020 at 10:39am

Extending the thought of what the trees went through... some species actually require disaster to become what they are.  For example, some pines need otherwise devastating wildfire for seeds to grow (see Serotiny on Wikipedia) and contribute to the regrowth of the forest.  So it is with us, enduring the searing pain of loss will (I hope) prompt eventually regrowth into a new, healthy self.

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