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30th Birthday.. AKA It's my party and I can cry if I want to..

Today is my 30th birthday. Ive cried off and on for the last week thinking about today. I do not want to face today. I do not want to be starting the next decade of my life without him. I got to celebrate his 40th birthday with him, why didn't he get to celebrate my 30th birthday with me. Of course I am happy we got to celebrate my 29th birthday together. It is a memory I will cling onto, but I cant help but feel like all of this shit is unfair.

All I want for my birthday is for him to come home..

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Comment by CandJ02 on July 1, 2015 at 6:19pm

Happy (belated) Birthday. I hope you made it through the day as best you could with chocolate, or sleep, or tears or whatever you needed to do for you. Hugs and love! 

Comment by Callie2 on July 1, 2015 at 3:25pm
Good news! Read in the paper today, chocolate is actually a vegetable. Who knew?
Comment by vintage56(barb) on June 30, 2015 at 10:28am

If you want to stay in bed all day and cry and eat chocolate, go right ahead. (((hugs)))

Comment by Callie2 on June 29, 2015 at 5:28pm
Happy birthday, I know it would be a whole lot happier with him here but unfortunately that can't be changed. I'm sure he would have liked to be with you too. Sending you a warm hug!
Comment by Jessica on June 29, 2015 at 12:47pm

It's my birthday this week and I feel the exact same way. It is totally shit.

Comment by bis4betsy on June 29, 2015 at 9:17am

Celebrating anything when you're grieving takes so much more effort and has such a different meaning.  I hope other people in your life will shower you with love today. Sending you hugs, love, and comfort.

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