My Valentine to my yoga tribe is in Modern Loss, an online journal about coping with grief. This is the link to the article: A Widow's Galentine to her Girlfriends. It's about how making women friends really helped me to cope with my loneliness as a widow. It's a turning point for me because I was a crazy online dater for a while after George died and this is in part how I got healthier about finding companionship. Take care. I still think Valentine's Day is just so hard.