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This is from a card I received after my husband died.

I'll collect my tatters, the perfect pieces of me, and notch them together in an informal pattern just to suggest myself. Then I can start the welding process, and in a short breath, I'll be fine.

Well, it's been more that a short breath and I'm not yet fine, but there is progress.

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Comment by hendrixx2 on July 6, 2012 at 9:22pm

Hi Susan,

So glad you can feel the progress, it's great to know that ''stuck'' can be left to doors and pigs...

Comment by Susan J on July 6, 2012 at 8:43pm

Lynne, It has been just over 2 years for me. I am a different woman that I was BEFORE. I hope I am a better woman and more compassionate. I put those perfect pieces of me together in a different way. To say the least, the process has been interesting. I've looked at it as one more challenge. I am a project.

Comment by Lynne on July 6, 2012 at 8:36pm

That sentiment perfectly describes how I'm feeling right now, too, so thanks for posting it.  "My tatters" is an apt description, for sure, and I love the idea that, right now, what people see is merely a "suggestion" of who I normally am or have been.  You're right, there IS progress and I think that's about as much as we can ask right now.  Wishing you all the best.  Lynne

Comment by celestia (Suzanne) on July 6, 2012 at 7:17pm

Here's to progress!

Comment by kimkirt (KK) on July 5, 2012 at 8:48am

Glad to hear there has been progress for you. It's a beautiful sentiment. Hope keeping it close to your heart helps you on this journey. 

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