Since my husband died suddenly, I have good days and bad days. The tears hit me out of the blue. I could be at work or on my way home or sitting on the couch and then I start crying. I will hear a song on the radio that reminds me of him. I miss our life together. I miss my husband and best friend. How do you deal with grief? It is hard for people to understand what I am going through right now. No one knows what to say to me. Being a widow is tough. I have a good support network.